One of the great things about online dating sites is the ability to browse and chat with singles no matter where you are… in line at the coffee shop, on the couch binge watching Bridgerton, or (ssh) at work. However, there’s one place you shouldn’t be scrolling for singles: behind the wheel.

Via The Independent:

A lorry driver who ploughed into stationary traffic on a motorway and killed three people had been looking at dating sites on his phone moments before, a court was told.

In the minutes before the smash, he had been looking at sites such as ‘Shag Today’ and ‘Mystic Match’ and updating his profile while at the wheel.

RIP to the victims – and let this be a reminder that the sexy messages can wait.