How to ‘Bless and Release’
Picture this: you met someone on OBC, grabbed a drink at a local watering hole, chatted and had a nice time, but just didn’t feel the SPARK that made you wanna keep the night going. The next day, you get a text – “great time, let’s doing it again?”
What’s the nicest way to handle this? Ghost them? Go on another date because you feel bad? Well, One dating coach has a suggestion – to ‘Bless and Release’… or in other words, say thanks, but no thanks. Via HuffPo:
As Womble explains in a TikTok video that’s been making the rounds lately, when you “bless and release” someone you’re seeing, you wish them well and let them go.
“You’re telling them that this isn’t right for you so you can own what you want and move forward,” she says in the clip. “When you give yourself permission to know what is right for you, you’re opening up the space for those who are better for you and better for the other person as well.”
@datebrazen Replying to @dranuh_ #greenscreen there’s exactly how to bless and release someone who is not right for you. “Clear is kind and unclear is unkind”- Brené Brown. With these texts and in person script, you’ll be able to have a clear and kind conversation which is a gift to both you and the other person. Because you both deserve to be with the right people for you. ##blessandrelease##breakupadvice##boundaries##datingboundaries##radicalalignment##courageous##datingadvice##datingcoach ? How`s Your Day – aAp Vision
