With so many “influencers” out there, it’s hard to keep track of them all, their messages, their faces, and whether or not they’ve been embroiled in a scandal yet.

So we were today years old when we learned about “Tinx,” aka Christina Najjar, a TikTok influencer with over 1.5million followers. She recently released a book of dating advice, and while it’s mostly geared towards women, we think much of what she has to say can apply to all sexes with any sexuality.

Especially what she has to say here:

“My main message comes down to self-worth and prioritizing your own happiness, so if that’s something you think you’d like more of in your life, you are welcome here,” she writes.

In short, Tinx advises those dating around to “act how you want in the moment: If you feel like sleeping with someone, you should sleep with them. If you feel like you want to wait, then wait, but you shouldn’t withhold (sex) to try and manipulate your way to dating someone.”

Sometimes the best advice is the simplest, and that seems to be the case with these excellent words of wisdom. Thanks, Tinx! Consider us fans!