Dating trends just keep getting weirder, don’t they? The latest one blowing up TikTok is called “Shrekking.” Basically, it’s when you date someone you think is “less attractive” because you assume they’ll treat you better. Spoiler alert: they probably won’t.

Let’s be real—being hot has never been the actual problem in relationships. Jerks come in every package, from gym-rat abs to basement-dweller vibes. Settling for someone you’re not even into just because you hope they’ll be nicer? That’s not a strategy, that’s self-sabotage.

Why Shrekking is kinda swampy:

• Ugly ? angel. Don’t confuse “not your type” with “guaranteed sweetheart.” People can still be toxic no matter what they look like.

• Chemistry matters. If you’re not attracted, forcing it won’t magically make sparks fly. You’ll just get bored—and maybe resentful.

• Settling is not sexy. Dating should be about excitement, not compromise theater.

The real fairy-tale ending? Finding someone you vibe with because you actually click, not because you downgraded your type like it’s a clearance rack.

On OBC, you don’t have to play swamp games or lower your standards just to get treated right. We’re all about fun, flirty connections where you can meet people who get your vibe—whether they’re your “type” or a total surprise. BBWs or long n lanky, black or white, there’s plenty of diverse fish in our sea!

Because dating isn’t about settling. It’s about finding the sparks that make you want to stay up too late texting, sneak in one more kiss, or maybe even skip work tomorrow.

Join OBC today. Forget Shrekking—go find someone who makes you laugh, makes you blush, and actually treats you right.