Let’s clear this up once and for all: not all casual flings are created equal. Some come with a side of Netflix. Others come with nothing but a strong drink and a faster-than-Uber exit. But when it comes to friends with benefits versus hookups, how do you tell them apart — and which one are you actually after?

Grab a drink. This won’t take long.

Friends with Benefits:

You know them. You probably follow each other on socials. Maybe you’ve shared memes, secrets, and post-coital snacks. The sex is solid, the friendship is intact, and there’s an unspoken (or maybe loudly spoken) agreement not to catch feelings.

Pros? Built-in trust, repeat performances, and someone who already knows how you like it.
Cons? One of you might end up daydreaming about brunch with their parents — and that’s when things get messy.

Hookups:

These are the one-night wonders. The spontaneous flings after a long relationship. The “Hi, I’m…” and “Okay, bye!” in the same breath. You don’t need last names or long talks — just mutual attraction, clear boundaries, and maybe a good playlist.

Pros? Total freedom, zero expectations, and the thrill of something brand new.
Cons? Hit-or-miss chemistry and the occasional morning-after “what was their name again?”

So what’s the real difference?

It’s all about the vibes. Friends with benefits is sex plus a low-key connection. Hookups are sex minus anything long-term. One isn’t better than the other — it just depends on what you’re in the mood for (and how much small talk you can tolerate before getting naked).

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