Essence just dropped a truth bomb: inflation isn’t just hitting your grocery bill—it’s coming for your love life, too. According to their recent piece on the cost of cuffing season, more than half of Black singles are cutting back on dates, and nearly 60% are now more money-conscious about how they date. Even worse, 40% have ended relationships over financial stress. Gift-giving and holiday dinners have become full-blown budget traps, with many singles saying they’re skipping dating altogether just to save cash.

So let’s talk about it: cuffing season might look cute on TikTok, but in reality, it’s a financial danger zone in disguise.

First, there’s the endless cycle of dinner dates and “just one drink” nights that somehow turn into full tabs. Then come the gifts, the pressure to travel, and the subtle need to “match energy” when your new fling drops money like it’s confetti. Before you know it, you’re not just cuffed—you’re financially handcuffed.

And let’s be real: nothing kills chemistry faster than money stress.

That’s why the real power move this season is skipping the cuffing altogether. Instead of scrambling to find someone to hibernate with, make this your anti-cuffing era. Here’s how:

Treat yourself first. You’re not single until cuffing season—you’re single because you know your worth. Use the time and money you’d spend on someone else to spoil yourself instead.

Go out and be seen. You don’t need a partner to show up and show out. Hit a rooftop bar, catch live music, or just grab a drink solo and see who’s out there. The energy you put out when you’re genuinely having fun? That’s magnetic.

Use OBC to meet local singles—without the pressure or price tag. With OBC, you control the pace. You can meet people in your area, grab a coffee, hit up a bar, or chat online without the constant spending that comes with traditional dating apps and “situationships.” It’s dating that fits your lifestyle and your budget.

Keep it casual—but classy. You don’t owe anyone a cuff just because it’s getting cold out. If you vibe with someone, great. If not, keep it moving. Your peace (and your wallet) will thank you.

And finally, remember that financial transparency is sexy. If things do start to get serious, be upfront about your boundaries and comfort zones. If they can’t respect that, they’re not worth the overdraft.

The real talk? Cuffing season can cost more than it’s worth. As Essence pointed out, people are getting smarter about dating in these economic times. So skip the pressure, save your coins, and keep it fun. Go out, laugh, flirt, and connect on your terms.

Because the best kind of love doesn’t drain your bank account—and on OBC, you can meet people who get that.