With millions of connections made every week at OBC, we see many happy OBC members find the booty they’ve always been searching for. Unfortunately, we also see a lot of men who have no idea how to approach women. It saddens me to see you guys miss out on so much booty, all because you are taking the wrong approach. That’s why I’ve come up with my patented 5 Tips on How to Approach a Booty Call. Read and learn grasshoppa!

1. Slow it Down – Never start your Booty Calls with comments about how bad you want to bend her over. That only works in pornos. Take the time to get to know her by chatting and making her feel comfortable with you. In the real world, you don’t walk up to someone and expect to hook up without playing the game. It’s no different online.

2. Treat Her Like a Lady – Even if she’s only interested in a casual hookup, she doesn’t want to feel like a prostitute. Greeting her with a line like, “Nice tits, when are we gonna hookup?” is the perfect way to kill any chance of meeting her. Although guys react to the physical attraction of a member’s photo, take the time to read her profile description if she has one. This will give you a better understanding on how to approach her. A little time and effort will go a long way.

3. Be Original – Don’t copy and paste the same message to every member on your Booty Call list. Most women can tell when you’re doing this and it gives them the impression that you’re lazy and uncreative. On the other hand, don’t waste your time writing a poem or your life story in the first message you send to her. You may think you’re showing her that you’re going the extra mile but she will probably think you’re corny, desperate, or worse; crazy.

4. Don’t be an A-hole – If you don’t receive a response right away or don’t get the answer you were looking for, don’t get mad and send her a disrespectful message. She may not be online all the time but that doesn’t mean you’ll never hear from her. Act like you’ve had some before and move on so that you don’t ruin your chances of ever getting to know her.

5. Have fun – Meeting new people should not be approached like a job interview. There’s no perfect formula that will work with every woman, but if you can make her smile, you’ve already reached first base!