If you’ve been swiping around lately, you’ve probably seen it in bios: ENM. Short for Ethical Non-Monogamy, it’s one of the hottest terms in modern dating — but what does it actually mean, and why are so many singles (and couples) into it?

What is Ethical Non-Monogamy?

Simply put, ENM is any relationship structure where all partners openly agree to see other people. No cheating, no sneaking — just honest, transparent connections that might be romantic, sexual, or both.

It can include:

• Open relationships (dating or sleeping with others while maintaining a primary partnership)

• Polyamory (multiple loving relationships at the same time)

• Swinging (couples exploring new partners together)

• Casual dating (meeting multiple people without exclusivity)

The keyword here is ethical. Everyone involved is aware, consenting, and on board.

Why ENM is Trending

Dating apps, shifting cultural norms, and more open conversations about sexuality have made ENM easier — and hotter — than ever. People are realizing that monogamy isn’t the only option, and that honesty about multiple connections can be more satisfying than secrecy.

Plus, for singles, ENM dating can mean a bigger pool of potential partners and fewer awkward “What are we?” talks. For couples, it can add variety, adventure, and new experiences without ending a committed bond.

How to Get Started with ENM Dating

1. Know what you want – Are you looking for fun? Friendship? Deep connections? Clarity helps you match with the right people.

2. Be upfront – Include your ENM status in your profile so no one’s surprised later.

3. Communicate constantly – Boundaries, expectations, and updates keep things smooth.

4. Join a community that gets it – Not every dating app is ENM-friendly, so choose wisely.

Ready to explore your ENM side?

At OBC, we’re all about open, honest, and adventurous connections. Solo, partnered, or somewhere in between, you’ll find people who want the same thing you do — without the judgment. Join OBC today and see where ethical non-monogamy can take you. Your next connection could be a swipe away.