Dry January always sounds simple in theory. No drinks for a month, clearer skin, better sleep, fresh start, inner peace, etc. But then someone invites us on a date and suddenly we realize that most of our flirting confidence has historically come from a $14 cocktail.Dating sober feels intense. It feels honest. It feels like […]
From all of us at OBC, we’re wishing you a VERY happy, fun, safe, and sexy New Year. Looking forward t0 2026 with you all!
The calendar is flipping, the glitter from New Year’s is still stuck in our hair, and we are officially entering our upgraded dating era. This is the year we treat ourselves like the catch, stop entertaining nonsense, and choose fun, confidence, and clarity. We’re not reinventing ourselves. We’re just leaving a few truly terrible dating […]
Welcome to the strange little pocket of time between Christmas and New Year. No one knows what day it is, every meal somehow involves leftover cookies, and we are all wearing the same cozy outfit we’ve had on since December 26th.Our group chats are quiet. Our brains are floating. Our calendars are pretending to work.And […]
Some people look at celebrity Christmas trees for decorating inspiration. We’re here for… slightly different reasons. From impossibly glamorous living rooms to “how is anyone allowed to be that attractive while hanging ornaments?” energy, these holiday thirst-trap tree moments are truly a gift to us all.So grab some cocoa, admire the sparkle, appreciate the abs […]
(A Single Girl’s Very Real Wish List) Every year, we’re told the holidays are about romance, mistletoe, and bringing “someone special” home. And sure, that’s cute. But if we’re single in December, our Christmas lists look a little different. Less diamond jewelry, more vibes. Less “forever,” more “fun for now.” So while Mariah is still […]
Going home for the holidays is a special kind of emotional time warp. You’re sleeping in your childhood bedroom, your parents still think you don’t know how to do laundry, and somehow everyone you ever kissed before age 25 is suddenly back in town at the same time.Instead of pretending you’re above it all, lean […]
Holiday parties are a social endurance sport. You show up. You smile. You accept a drink you didn’t ask for. You nod through stories you’ve already heard three times this year. And at some point, you start wondering if faking a fire alarm is still frowned upon.Here’s the truth: bringing a random date to a […]
Summer gets all the hype. Rooftop bars, beach bodies, “hot girl summer” energy. But let’s be honest: winter is where casual dating really thrives. And no, you don’t need to be cuffed, cozy, or planning matching pajamas to enjoy it.Here’s why winter is the real MVP season for hookups, flings, and delightfully low-pressure dates.First: everyone […]
Gone are the days of playing it safe in your dating profile. According to a recent VICE article, singles are officially embracing “hot-take dating” — aka putting your real opinions front and center and letting the right people find you.And honestly? It’s about time.So… What Is Hot-Take Dating?Hot-take dating is exactly what it sounds like: […]
