Sending a first message on a dating site can be intimidating. What can you say that will intrigue and entice, but won’t put anyone off? Is it silly or stupid, sexy or too suggestive? A recent study shared on Yahoo News revealed the messages that singles do NOT want to receive — and you might be surprised at some of them. Check em out below (and if you’re trying to get some action, DON’T Use them on OBC Dating, or any other site!)!

Singles 30 worse messages/lines when chatting to someone new

1. Send pics – 45%

2. ? – 44%

3. Hey sexy, what’s your number? – 40%

4. Do you like bad boys/girls? – 38%

5. Without me? (when you say you’re going for a shower) – 38%

6. You’re so HAWT – 34%

7. Ur so sexy – 34%

8. Phwoarr – 34%

9. Did it hurt when you fell from heaven? – 34%

10. I think my Spotify is broken. You’re not listed in the hottest singles – 34%

11. What u wearing? – 33%

12. Does your mate on your profile pic have IG? – 32%

13. DTF? – 30%

14. Imagine what our children will look like – 29%

15. Heyyyyyy – 28%

16. I have serious co-dependency issues – 28%

17. Why are you single? – 27%

18. Tell me why I should go on a date with you? – 24%

19. You up? – 24%

20. Morning beautiful – 24%

21. Yours or mine? – 23%

22. Wassup? – 23%

23. You’re the girl / boy of my dreams – 23%

24. Can I add you on Insta/Snapchat? – 22%

25. I could get lost in your eyes – 20%

26. Wyd? – 19%

27. You’re the boy / girl of my dreams – 19%

28. Thanks for not unmatching me – 18%

29. ? – 16%

30. ??  – 16%