There’s a lot to love about sex, obviously, or we wouldn’t have started this dating site. However, too often, especially for women, sex can be boring, painful, and/or satisfying. Over on Reddit, women shared the most “annoying” things about sex, and they range from funny to WTF to relatable:

The anxiety of whether or not I’m good.

Cleaning up.

The fear of pregnancy. I’m on the depo shot AND always use condoms, but I’ve never quite been able to get over that paranoia.

The getting-myself-into-the-mood-part early on. It’s like my husband starts on ground level, and I’m standing in a 5-feet deep hole right next to him. He can just start going forward, but I have to first hoist myself up and out. 

Every so often when they hit an angle that hurts.

Period sex. There needs to be a towel laid down, and putting it on the bed beforehand feels too much like a weird ritual, and it’s a lot less spontaneous.

So much effort. Prep, clean-up, birth control, laundry, the actual physical effort involved. I’m so damn tired.

The pressure to have an orgasm. I’m very lucky that my current partner is concerned about my pleasure. However, between birth control and mental health meds, an orgasm is VERY hard for me to achieve, even on my own.

And the one that made us seriously LOL:

Having to hold in my farts.