{"id":13489,"date":"2012-02-03T12:30:50","date_gmt":"2012-02-03T19:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=13489"},"modified":"2012-02-03T09:56:22","modified_gmt":"2012-02-03T16:56:22","slug":"singles-are-looking-for-love-not-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/singles-are-looking-for-love-not-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Singles are Looking for Love, Not Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes you wake up in the morning in a great mood for absolutely no reason. You spring out of bed with a smile on your face and all seems right with the world and yet you haven&#8217;t even had your coffee yet! I&#8217;m in one of those moods today, can you guess why? Is it the fact that it&#8217;s Super Bowl weeked? Well, yes, but more on that later. Is it because I drank some weird Chinese tea last night that I suspect had opium in it? MAYBE, but no! It&#8217;s because of this article from <a href=\"http:\/\/yourlife.usatoday.com\/sex-relationships\/story\/2012-02-01\/Many-singles-looking-for-love-but-not-marriage\/52922248\/1\">USA Today<\/a>, which listed a ton of findings from Match.com survey that are right up our alley! Check it out:<\/p>\n<p>The first question asked if singles were looking to find love, and we were happy to see that for the most part, people aren&#8217;t actively searching out a relationship, but instead are waiting to see if one finds them. We have found that being open to meeting new people but not being constantly on the hunt for a boyfriend or girlfriend is the best way to find a relationship. I mean, just check out our nearly 30 weeks of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/tag\/testimoanial-tuesday\/\">testiMOANials<\/a> &#8211; they show the exact same thing!<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/bcu2-shared.onlinebootycall.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/match1.jpg\"\/><\/center><\/p>\n<p>This next poll question, as you can see, is one of our favorites&#8230; it shows that online daters are opening up to the idea that sexual freedom isn&#8217;t something to be ashamed of! With a whopping 58% of singles saying that they&#8217;ve had a one-night stand, we&#8217;re excited to see that people are having fun, hooking up (and being safe about it, we hope), and letting relationships and marriages come when and if they do.<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/bcu2-shared.onlinebootycall.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/match3.jpg\"\/><\/center><\/p>\n<p>And now &#8211; the gold mine. According to the study (of over 5,000 singles), marriage isn&#8217;t the first thing on singles minds anymore! While in the past, being an online dating site member meant that you were looking for a marriage right away. Now though, it seems singles aren&#8217;t sure that marriage is <i>ever<\/i> necessary. At only 34% of the total population, it appears that people actively seeking marriage are actually in the minority, compared to the group of people who aren&#8217;t sure and those who are POSITIVE they aren&#8217;t looking for wedding bells!<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/bcu2-shared.onlinebootycall.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/match2.jpg\"\/><\/center><\/p>\n<p>This may just be one survey, but with such a big population (from such a mainstream site, no less!), it puts a smile on our face to see that so many singles are realizing what we&#8217;ve known for years: marriage is slowly becoming obsolete, and finding love doesn&#8217;t mean searching endlessly for &#8220;The One,&#8221; you can just have fun, date, and hook up, and love with find you!<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-13489\" data-postid=\"13489\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-13489 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes you wake up in the morning in a great mood for absolutely no reason. 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