{"id":15562,"date":"2012-08-31T11:45:46","date_gmt":"2012-08-31T18:45:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=15562"},"modified":"2012-08-31T09:30:23","modified_gmt":"2012-08-31T16:30:23","slug":"tips-to-a-healthy-and-sexy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/tips-to-a-healthy-and-sexy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips to a Healthy (and Sexy) Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/bcu2-shared.onlinebootycall.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/hotcouple.jpg\"\/><\/center><\/p>\n<p>We are proud every week to share our members&#8217; happy-ever-afters, stories of meeting their soul mates and even getting married &#8211; all from a site called OnlineBootyCall! However, we rarely get to hear the happy couples&#8217; stories after a few weeks, months, or years of being together (except of course, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/testimoanial-tuesday-18\/\" target=_blank> this special case<\/a>), and we often wonder if the relationships worked out. We wish that we could send them off with a bit of relationship advice, some tips from us at OBC who have, brace yourself, <i>been in long term relationships too<\/i>. <\/p>\n<p>Sure, we prefer booty calls over long term shenanigans, but hey &#8211; doesn&#8217;t mean we can&#8217;t share some tips from the trade, right? And don&#8217;t worry, they&#8217;re easy as pie!<\/p>\n<p>1. <b>Keep it Fun<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not rare to see a couple meet, have a blast together going out, trying new things, partying together, and more&#8230; just as it&#8217;s not surprising to see a couple become exclusive and start spending all their time at home, eating pizza and watching movies. Hey &#8211; we&#8217;re not bashing it, sometimes sitting back and watching a movie in your PJs is just what the doctor ordered. But doing that too often can be a recipe for disaster, because the moment one person gets bored, they&#8217;re more likely to break it off, or worse &#8211; cheat. So treat every day like it&#8217;s the first time you met. Hit a park for a picnic, go to the zoo, or sign up for rock climbing classes. It doesn&#8217;t have to be expensive, just fun!<\/p>\n<p>2. <b>Keep it Casual<\/b><\/p>\n<p>While losing the excitement and interest can be a guaranteed relationship-killer, the opposite is also true &#8211; getting high-strung and uptight about the relationship is one of the world&#8217;s biggest turn offs. Many people have a hard time trusting others because they&#8217;ve been hurt before, but that&#8217;s life. Instead of letting insecurities take control, remember you can&#8217;t control other people, but you <i>can<\/i> control your reactions to them. Allow yourself to feel relaxed and open to whatever may come your way, and you&#8217;ll have way more time to enjoy the relationship!<\/p>\n<p>3. <b>Keep it Sexy<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One of our biggest gripes about relationships is the widely held idea that sex should always take a backseat to emotions. Sure, syncing on an emotional level is key to a solid relationship, but a great sex life can make or break a relationship, so it&#8217;s important to share as many intimate moments as possible. Not only will they <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/more-reasons-why-sex-is-good-for-you\/\" target=_blank>improve your mental (and physical) health<\/a>, but the endorphins released during boot-knockin&#8217; is likely to help your relationship go the distance! We may be offering relationship advice, but we&#8217;re still masters of booty- so if you listen to any advice, make it this one!<\/p>\n<p>And for those of you who aren&#8217;t quite to this level, check out this week&#8217;s other OBC advice columns:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/touch-up-your-obc-profile\/\" target=_blank> Touch Up Your Dating Profile<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/obc-tipz-moving-from-online-flirtation-to-offline-date-ation-im-sorry\/\" target=_blank>Taking the Flirting Offline<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/stay-single-or-go-steady\/\" target=_blank>Stay Single or Go Steady?<\/a><\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-15562\" data-postid=\"15562\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-15562 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are proud every week to share our members&#8217; happy-ever-afters, stories of meeting their soul mates and even getting married &#8211; all from a site called OnlineBootyCall! However, we rarely get to hear the happy couples&#8217; stories after a few weeks, months, or years of being together (except of course, in this special case), and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[69,8967,8,1942],"class_list":["post-15562","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advice","tag-dating-advice","tag-how-to-keep-your-relationship-fresh","tag-online-dating","tag-relationship-advice","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15562"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15562"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15562\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15591,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15562\/revisions\/15591"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15562"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15562"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15562"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}