{"id":18424,"date":"2013-05-30T13:00:37","date_gmt":"2013-05-30T20:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=18424"},"modified":"2013-05-30T09:38:56","modified_gmt":"2013-05-30T16:38:56","slug":"why-are-we-still-lying-about-our-sex-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/why-are-we-still-lying-about-our-sex-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Are We Still Lying About Our Sex Lives?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/bcu2-shared.onlinebootycall.com.s3.amazonaws.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/sexday.jpg\"\/><\/center><\/p>\n<p>I am a shamefully obsessive fan of the PBS show <i>Downton Abbey<\/i>. It&#8217;s like a soap opera, except British, so it seems less trashy to watch it at 2 in the afternoon on a Saturday, I guess. In three seasons on the show, which is set in the English countryside in the 1920s, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve heard a character utter the word &#8220;sex&#8221; once. It&#8217;s been implied, with an embarrassed air, but never has a character actually said, &#8220;let&#8217;s have sex,&#8221; or &#8220;we had sex.&#8221; When one member of the show&#8217;s family has premarital &#8220;relations,&#8221; they become a pariah to all who know about it. It&#8217;s weird, but hey &#8211; it&#8217;s 1920. <\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s funny to read that some of these taboos still exist, even in college students today. According to a study out of Ohio State University, students who are questioned about their sex lives are likely to lie unless hooked up to a lie detector test, but of course males and females lie in different ways:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Women not linked up to the lie detector reported having had fewer sexual partners, being older when they lost their virginity and having had fewer one-night stands. Men reported the opposite: Those not linked up to the lie detector reported having had more sexual partners, being younger when they lost their virginity and having had more one-night stands. According to the researchers, these results show that people are likely to lie about their sexual history to make their experiences line up with gender stereotypes.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We think it&#8217;s time these stereotypes die, like the <a href=\"http:\/\/i.telegraph.co.uk\/multimedia\/archive\/02353\/DowntonAbbey3_2353968b.jpg\" target=_blank>incredibly unflattering flapper styles<\/a> of <i>Downton Abbey<\/i> (ugh). Why is it that shows like <i>16 and Pregnant<\/i> and <i>Toddlers and Tiaras<\/i> are allowed to exist, but adults engaging in consensual, natural behaviors is still looked down upon? <\/p>\n<p>THROW ASIDE THE STEREOTYPES, ladies! Say you&#8217;ve hooked up with as many guys as you have, and OWN it! There ain&#8217;t no shame in being a sexual woman. And guys, no need to lie. It&#8217;s not that impressive, seriously.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2013\/05\/29\/lying-about-sex-common-men-and-women_n_3353446.html\" target=_blank>Via Huffington Post<\/a><\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-18424\" data-postid=\"18424\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-18424 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am a shamefully obsessive fan of the PBS show Downton Abbey. It&#8217;s like a soap opera, except British, so it seems less trashy to watch it at 2 in the afternoon on a Saturday, I guess. In three seasons on the show, which is set in the English countryside in the 1920s, I don&#8217;t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[3514,1024,128,6349,3321,5967,5502,10289],"class_list":["post-18424","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-and-sex","tag-dating-news-2","tag-news","tag-sex","tag-sex-health","tag-sex-news","tag-sex-science","tag-sex-studies","tag-why-do-people-lie-about-their-sex-lives","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18424"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18424"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18424\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18432,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18424\/revisions\/18432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18424"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18424"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18424"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}