{"id":21729,"date":"2020-07-28T08:31:23","date_gmt":"2020-07-28T15:31:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=21729"},"modified":"2020-07-23T11:45:44","modified_gmt":"2020-07-23T18:45:44","slug":"how-to-meet-singles-in-your-city-101-step-one-the-dating-site","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/how-to-meet-singles-in-your-city-101-step-one-the-dating-site\/","title":{"rendered":"Choosing The Best Dating Site For You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_23787\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-23787\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thought-catalog-641073-unsplash.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-23787\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thought-catalog-641073-unsplash-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thought-catalog-641073-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thought-catalog-641073-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thought-catalog-641073-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/thought-catalog-641073-unsplash-1024x683-340x226.jpg 340w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-23787\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image via ThoughtCatalog<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>These days, dating is strange. You&#8217;re probably (rightly) feeling uncomfortable going out in public and meeting strangers\u00a0 &#8211; plus, who knows what they look like with that mask on! Plus, there&#8217;s the requirements of dating in a pandemic world, which certainly aren&#8217;t what us singles are used to. Luckily, when you use an online dating site, you can log on, any time of day or night, and safely send out messages to other members, and chat back and forth to get to know each other and decide if an IRL hook up is worth the effort.<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s start at the beginning &#8211; choosing a dating site &#8211; because that can make all the difference in the world. What dating site should you choose? There are hundreds of sites on the web, but before you choose, use this checklist so you pick the right one for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Know what you&#8217;re looking for<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve seen the Match.com commercials &#8211; that site is for folks who are ready to settle down and are looking for marriage&#8230; STAT. That&#8217;s not to say that there aren&#8217;t random hookups that occur on mainstream sites like Match, but they are few and far between, because most members are there looking for The ONE. If you&#8217;re NOT desperately searching for your life partner, stick to sites that offer a more casual attitude. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">OnlineBootyCall<\/a> is famous for helping fun singles met for NSA hookups and casual dating, so we could be perfect for you! (And hey, maybe you <a title=\"TestiMOANial Tuesday\" href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/testimoanial-tuesday-108\/\">WILL find The One<\/a> &#8211; who knows?)<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Know what you&#8217;re willing to put in<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No one knows you better than yourself, so it&#8217;s time to be honest. Do you want to spend the next 6 hours setting up a complicated, IQ-test-like profile survey? Or do you want to sign up, upload a pic, and start browsing? If you&#8217;re like us, the thought of answering whether you&#8217;re &#8220;spontaneous&#8221; or &#8220;impulsive&#8221; just sounds boring and time-consuming. could be right for you &#8211; since we let you write your own profile, with just a couple simple, necessary questions (are you look for a guy or a girl [or BOTH]).<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Scope out the crowd in your area\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before committing to a site, see if you can browse the singles in your area and find out if there are a good amount near you. It would be a huge bummer to spend all that time (and maybe even money, if you go for an upgraded membership) just to find out there are 12 singles in your city and 6 of them are in the AARP crowd. When you sign up for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">OBC<\/a>, you can browse singles in your area (up to 100 miles away, if you&#8217;re the driving type) &#8211; so you can be sure there&#8217;s a basket of singles to choose from when you upgrade to a Gold subscriber.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Read testimonials and reviews<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dating sites put a lot of money into looking good. They want to draw people in with beautiful interfaces and stock images of sexy couples. However, the real test of how great a site is comes from their members, so be sure to look for testimonials. 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