{"id":25129,"date":"2020-03-11T10:48:04","date_gmt":"2020-03-11T17:48:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=25129"},"modified":"2020-03-11T10:48:04","modified_gmt":"2020-03-11T17:48:04","slug":"love-is-blind-but-not-according-to-science","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/love-is-blind-but-not-according-to-science\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Love is Blind&#8221; &#8230; But Not According to Science"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-25130\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/LoveIsBlind_Season1_Episode1_00_15_01_21_R-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/LoveIsBlind_Season1_Episode1_00_15_01_21_R-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/LoveIsBlind_Season1_Episode1_00_15_01_21_R-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/LoveIsBlind_Season1_Episode1_00_15_01_21_R-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/LoveIsBlind_Season1_Episode1_00_15_01_21_R.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Unless you&#8217;ve been living under a rock, you&#8217;ve probably heard about Love is Blind, the Netflix reality show about singles &#8220;falling in love&#8221; and getting engaged &#8211; without ever having seen each other &#8211; while chatting and getting to know each other in segregated &#8220;pods&#8221;. Yeah, this is where we&#8217;re at, everyone. It&#8217;s been a worldwide phenomenon, but according to science, the premise isn&#8217;t very solid &#8211; Love actually has pretty great vision, and for good reason!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.glamour.com\/story\/love-is-blind-not-really-says-science-and-thats-a-good-thing\">Via Glamour:<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cPsychologists believe that emotional connection is the key to long term marital success\u2014NOT physical attraction,\u201d explains the show\u2019s co-host, who introduces himself as \u201cobviously, Nick Lachey.\u201d But that\u2019s not exactly true.<\/p>\n<p>Despite Lachey\u2019s claim on behalf of the show, psychologists\u2014and researchers, and sociologists, and couples counselors\u2014actually tend to agree that physical attraction and physical touch are important ingredients in the tricky-to-mix cocktail of long-term affection.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Emotional and sexual aspects of intimacy in romantic relationships are important correlates of couples\u2019 relationship satisfaction,\u201d Yoo, et. al,\u00a0<a class=\"external-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/0092623X.2012.751072?src=recsys\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/0092623X.2012.751072?src=recsys&quot;}\">wrote<\/a>\u00a0in the\u00a0<em>Journal of Sex &amp; Marital Therapy<\/em>\u00a0in 2014. In a study of 335 married couples, those researchers found that \u201csexual satisfaction significantly predicted emotional intimacy for husbands and wives, while emotional intimacy did not appear to have a significant influence on sexual satisfaction.\u201d The concept of\u00a0<em>Love Is Blind<\/em>\u00a0builds emotional intimacy, but doesn\u2019t allow physical contact.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So basically what they&#8217;re saying is that OBC has it right &#8211; putting an emphasis on physical compatibility can actually be more important when trying to find a real connection!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-25129\" data-postid=\"25129\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-25129 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unless you&#8217;ve been living under a rock, you&#8217;ve probably heard about Love is Blind, the Netflix reality show about singles &#8220;falling in love&#8221; and getting engaged &#8211; without ever having seen each other &#8211; while chatting and getting to know each other in segregated &#8220;pods&#8221;. Yeah, this is where we&#8217;re at, everyone. 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