{"id":27014,"date":"2021-10-12T08:57:40","date_gmt":"2021-10-12T15:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=27014"},"modified":"2021-10-11T15:01:58","modified_gmt":"2021-10-11T22:01:58","slug":"how-to-tell-someone-you-just-want-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/how-to-tell-someone-you-just-want-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell Someone You Just Want Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"630\" height=\"419\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/vdaysex.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20443\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/vdaysex.jpg 630w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/vdaysex-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/vdaysex-340x226.jpg 340w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 630px) 100vw, 630px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Here at OBC we support all types of safe, consensual dating &#8211; whether you&#8217;re into one night stands, booty calls, friends with benefits, committed relationships or somewhere in between. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But we know that sometimes one person has a different expectation of the relationship, and making sure you&#8217;re on the same page is crucial. Here are some tips from experts on setting the record straight with your booty call, from <a href=\"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/health\/ask-kai-lesbian-casual-sex-209933\">Xtra<\/a> Magazine:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Your desire for sex without relationships is in your domain. You have a right to that desire, and you don\u2019t have to feel bad about it or try to change it. You also have a responsibility to manage your desire for casual sex in a thoughtful and honest way.\u00a0<\/p><p>Likewise, your potential partners have a right to want a serious relationship, and they have a responsibility to manage their expectations and respect the limits of others who might want something different.\u00a0<\/p><p>It\u2019s not all on you to make your potential partners feel good about themselves, and it\u2019s not all on them to give you an easy, no-strings-attached sexual experience. You and your partners are cooking in this cauldron together, and you both need to communicate your wants and hopes, desires and limits.\u00a0<\/p><p>Be upfront and let a potential partner know early on what you are looking for\u2014i.e. casual sex versus deep romance. Clear, kind and honest communication are essential tools for navigating tricky romantic situations.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-27014\" data-postid=\"27014\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-27014 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here at OBC we support all types of safe, consensual dating &#8211; whether you&#8217;re into one night stands, booty calls, friends with benefits, committed relationships or somewhere in between. But we know that sometimes one person has a different expectation of the relationship, and making sure you&#8217;re on the same page is crucial. 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