{"id":27716,"date":"2022-07-08T09:10:08","date_gmt":"2022-07-08T16:10:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=27716"},"modified":"2022-07-07T14:15:00","modified_gmt":"2022-07-07T21:15:00","slug":"before-you-get-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/before-you-get-married\/","title":{"rendered":"Before You Get Married:"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/divorce.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-27246\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/divorce.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/divorce-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/divorce-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;ve always championed the idea that #MarriageCanWait &#8211; and now we have some real, solid information, via BuzzFeed, on important things to consider before you make it legal\/put a ring on it\/say yes to the dress\/etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/jessg\/divorce-lawyers-share-what-engaged-couples-should-know\">Via BuzzFeed:<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>I recently\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/jessg\/divorce-lawyers-share-tips-for-engaged-couples\">asked<\/a>\u00a0the divorce lawyers of the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/tag\/community\">BuzzFeed Community<\/a>\u00a0to share their advice for engaged couples (or anyone who has plans to marry one day).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is what they had to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t marry someone you wouldn&#8217;t want to divorce.<\/strong> &#8220;I\u2019ve seen so many couples become incredibly petty and decimate negotiations because they view the divorce as a settling of the score or a win\/lose situation. This is especially bad when custody is involved.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sexting is cheating.<\/strong> And they will use the photos as evidence! Think about that the next time you send a dick pic to your mistress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t pull the divorce card in every argument that you might have with your partner.<\/strong> Seriously, I can&#8217;t stress this enough but if every time you fight one of you threatens to divorce, maybe you shouldn&#8217;t even be married in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t be afraid to ask tough questions before committing yourself to someone for the rest of your life. <\/strong>It may be hard to have these conversations, but the short-term hurt is better than suffering through a bad relationship and having your partner do the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Having wildly different money habits\/ideologies are at the root <\/strong>of so many of the divorces I handle&#8230; It can cause so much resentment and conflict.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t rush into marriage and address your issues before getting married.<\/strong> How are you going to deal with money? How are you going to raise kids? What are your life goals? 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