{"id":28062,"date":"2022-11-15T08:25:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-15T15:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=28062"},"modified":"2022-11-14T14:37:08","modified_gmt":"2022-11-14T21:37:08","slug":"another-reason-marriagecanwait-money-woes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/another-reason-marriagecanwait-money-woes\/","title":{"rendered":"Another Reason #MarriageCanWait: Money Woes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/expensive-dating.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-27882\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/expensive-dating.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/expensive-dating-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/expensive-dating-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You might love a person with all your heart. Sexually, you&#8217;re compatible. You get along great. You like their family and they like yours and your values are the same. But STILL, there&#8217;s another reason you might not wanna head down the aisle with them: MONEY, the root of all evil (and many divorces). Here are a few of the reasons, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/lizmrichardson\/people-who-divorced-over-money-stories\">via BuzzFeed,<\/a> some folks got divorced when money ruined everything:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My ex refused to work, even when I begged him to. We lived on my salary alone, and it was so hard. Eventually, I just snapped and asked for a divorce. It was clear that he wasn\u2019t going to change, and I was tired of not having financial stability in my life. <strong>It\u2019s been six months since I filed, and I already have more savings than we ever had as a couple.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Two years into our marriage, <strong>he was arrested for embezzlement.<\/strong> Never found out what he did with the money.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;My ex and I had totally different ideas about when we had &#8216;extra&#8217; money for non-essentials. I think it\u2019s when all your bills are paid, your only debts are the mortgage and the car, and no major expenses are looming. <strong>My ex thought it was when he had a little extra credit available on one of his many cards.\u00a0<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;We had a joint bank account. Big mistake. I made all the money; he spent it. I&#8217;d go to pay a bill, <strong>only to find the account empty because he needed some game<\/strong> or a part for his ancient VW bus.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;She decided to cheat on me with multiple people, <strong>drained our savings, sold all of my stuff except a small amount of clothes, and ran up $10k+ in debt within a three-month period.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;<strong>My ex fell for an investment scam. <\/strong>He was &#8216;investing&#8217; Bitcoin, but they kept asking for money to get the money he &#8216;made.&#8217; He cleared out our bank accounts, maxed out all of our credit cards \u2014 including my personal one \u2014 and took money from my FSA.&#8221;<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-28062\" data-postid=\"28062\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-28062 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You might love a person with all your heart. Sexually, you&#8217;re compatible. You get along great. You like their family and they like yours and your values are the same. But STILL, there&#8217;s another reason you might not wanna head down the aisle with them: MONEY, the root of all evil (and many divorces). Here [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28062","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-and-sex","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28062"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28062"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28062\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28064,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28062\/revisions\/28064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28062"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28062"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28062"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}