{"id":28573,"date":"2023-05-16T09:16:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-16T16:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=28573"},"modified":"2023-05-15T12:22:51","modified_gmt":"2023-05-15T19:22:51","slug":"5-rules-for-casual-sex-in-your-40s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/5-rules-for-casual-sex-in-your-40s\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Rules for Casual Sex in your 40s"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/40s-casual-sex-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-28574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/40s-casual-sex-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/40s-casual-sex-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/40s-casual-sex-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/40s-casual-sex-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/40s-casual-sex.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here at OBC we believe casual sex is for anyone (when it&#8217;s legal and consensual, obvs), but of course hooking up is different at every age. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For those who are &#8220;over the hill,&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/12-rules-casual-sex-40s-140000616.html\">Yahoo<\/a> is sharing a few rules for casual sex is your 40s &#8211; here are 5 of our favorites: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"> Keep It Light<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Casual sex means chemistry without complications or bummers. This might sound brusque, but casual sex does not include emotional support.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Don\u2019t Let Them Meet the Kids<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201c<\/strong>Things get tricky when kids are involved,\u201d says sexologist Reeves, \u201cand the last thing you want to do is start building impactful connections with kids when you\u2019re not planning on exploring a long-term relationship.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Safety First<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Safety shout-out, part A: Several single moms agreed: Meet in public first, then bring them to your home (as long as it\u2019s a week you don\u2019t have the kids). Safety shout-out, part B: Use condoms all the time and every time, even if everyone says they aren\u2019t sleeping with anyone else.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Keep It Private<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;No Instagram posts or meeting each other\u2019s friends, since those imply relationships. 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