{"id":29715,"date":"2024-06-06T17:25:03","date_gmt":"2024-06-07T00:25:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=29715"},"modified":"2024-06-06T17:30:22","modified_gmt":"2024-06-07T00:30:22","slug":"7-habits-of-highly-sexual-couples","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/7-habits-of-highly-sexual-couples\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Habits of Highly Sexual Couples"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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While we’re in the business of casual dating, we certainly don’t believe it’s IMPOSSIBLE for long term relationships to foster exciting, steamy sex lives. You just gotta keep tit fresh! Over on BuzzFeed<\/a>, some sex-perts chimed in with the habits of couples who maintain active, satisfying sex lives long into their relationships. Here they are!<\/p>\n

1. They let themselves get excited together, even when sex isn\u2019t on the menu.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

“Savoring the slow buildup ? drawing it out or teasing each other when you\u2019re out in public and can\u2019t do anything sexually explicit ? is a trait that most couples with hot sex lives share, said New York City sex therapist Stephen Snyder<\/a>,\u00a0the author of\u00a0Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship<\/a>.”<\/em><\/p>\n

2. Every year, they get a little bit dirtier.<\/h2>\n

“Couples with hot sex lives are always upping the ante in the bedroom. Whether it\u2019s grapefruiting<\/a>\u00a0or trying some next-level sex position, they seek out the new and unexplored,\u00a0said\u00a0Celeste Hirschman<\/a>, a sex therapist who wrote\u00a0Making Love Real: The Intelligent Couple\u2019s Guide to Lasting Intimacy and Passion<\/em><\/a>\u00a0with her business partner, Danielle Harel.<\/p>\n

\u201cOne couple we worked with said, \u2018Every year, we just got a little bit more dirty,\u2019 and that really captures it,\u2019\u201d Hirschman said.”<\/p>\n

3. They take care of themselves.\u00a0<\/h2>\n

“Couples with hot sex lives understand that feeling confident bolsters their sex drive. That doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re hitting Spin class every day and have zero body fat. The kind of confidence and inherent sexiness they possess is more full-bodied and holistic than that, said Vanessa Marin<\/a>, a sex therapist and the creator of\u00a0the Passion Project: A Couples\u2019 Blueprint to Rediscovering Desire and Reigniting the Spark<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cPhenomenal sex isn\u2019t just about your relationship with your partner. It\u2019s also about your relationship with yourself,\u201d she said.”<\/p>\n

4. They laugh in and outside the bedroom.<\/h2>\n

“Sex isn\u2019t always sultry, seductive or hot. Silly things happen when two bodies slap against each other, not to mention funny noises. When awkward moments arise, couples with great sex lives take it in stride and laugh about it, said Kimberly Resnick Anderson<\/a>, a sex therapist and an assistant professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine.<\/p>\n

\u201cHumor is a great aphrodisiac,\u201d she said.”<\/p>\n

5. They\u00a0masturbate\u00a0during<\/em>\u00a0sex.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n

“Here\u2019s a dirty little secret about relationship sex: Masturbating is much more fun when you\u2019re not doing it alone. Plus, in the process, your partner gets a master class on the most reliable ways to please you, said Shannon Chavez<\/a>, a psychologist and sex therapist in Los Angeles.<\/p>\n

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6. They explore each other\u2019s fantasies.\u00a0<\/h2>\n

“In the words of sex columnist Dan Savage, the best sex partners are \u201cgood,\u00a0giving and game<\/a>.\u201d In other words,\u00a0they\u2019re skilled in bed (thanks to a lot of practice),\u00a0they\u2019re generous, and they\u2019re willing to try out whatever their partner\u2019s into, within reason.<\/p>\n

The three G\u2019s are especially important in long-term, committed relationships,\u00a0in which things can easily become stagnant in the bedroom, said Hirschman.<\/p>\n

\u201cLong-term couples with hot sex lives know that each person has their own unique erotic imagination,\u201d she said.”<\/p>\n

7. They kiss and touch throughout the day, just to show they care.<\/h2>\n

“A playful pinch on the butt or kiss before work matters more than you think. Putting a premium on non-sexy-time touch is a great way to remind your partner that you\u2019re content and still very much attracted to him or her, Chavez said. “<\/p>\n

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While we're in the business of casual dating, we certainly don't believe it's IMPOSSIBLE for long term relationships to foster exciting, steamy sex lives. You just gotta keep tit fresh! Over on BuzzFeed<\/a>, some sex-perts chimed in with the habits of couples who maintain active, satisfying sex lives long into their relationships. Here they are!<\/p>

1. They let themselves get excited together, even when sex isn\u2019t on the menu.<\/strong><\/h2>

\"Savoring the slow buildup ? drawing it out or teasing each other when you\u2019re out in public and can\u2019t do anything sexually explicit ? is a trait that most couples with hot sex lives share, said New York City sex therapist Stephen Snyder<\/a>,\u00a0the author of\u00a0Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship<\/a>.\"<\/em><\/p>

2. Every year, they get a little bit dirtier.<\/h2>

\"Couples with hot sex lives are always upping the ante in the bedroom. Whether it\u2019s grapefruiting<\/a>\u00a0or trying some next-level sex position, they seek out the new and unexplored,\u00a0said\u00a0Celeste Hirschman<\/a>, a sex therapist who wrote\u00a0Making Love Real: The Intelligent Couple\u2019s Guide to Lasting Intimacy and Passion<\/em><\/a>\u00a0with her business partner, Danielle Harel.<\/p>

\u201cOne couple we worked with said, \u2018Every year, we just got a little bit more dirty,\u2019 and that really captures it,\u2019\u201d Hirschman said.\"<\/p>

3. They take care of themselves.\u00a0<\/h2>

\"Couples with hot sex lives understand that feeling confident bolsters their sex drive. That doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re hitting Spin class every day and have zero body fat. The kind of confidence and inherent sexiness they possess is more full-bodied and holistic than that, said Vanessa Marin<\/a>, a sex therapist and the creator of\u00a0the Passion Project: A Couples\u2019 Blueprint to Rediscovering Desire and Reigniting the Spark<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>

\u201cPhenomenal sex isn\u2019t just about your relationship with your partner. It\u2019s also about your relationship with yourself,\u201d she said.\"<\/p>

4. They laugh in and outside the bedroom.<\/h2>

\"Sex isn\u2019t always sultry, seductive or hot. Silly things happen when two bodies slap against each other, not to mention funny noises. When awkward moments arise, couples with great sex lives take it in stride and laugh about it, said Kimberly Resnick Anderson<\/a>, a sex therapist and an assistant professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine.<\/p>

\u201cHumor is a great aphrodisiac,\u201d she said.\"<\/p>

5. They\u00a0masturbate\u00a0during<\/em>\u00a0sex.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>

\"Here\u2019s a dirty little secret about relationship sex: Masturbating is much more fun when you\u2019re not doing it alone. Plus, in the process, your partner gets a master class on the most reliable ways to please you, said Shannon Chavez<\/a>, a psychologist and sex therapist in Los Angeles.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cCouples that masturbate together stay together,\u201d she said\"<\/h2>\n

6. They explore each other\u2019s fantasies.\u00a0<\/h2>

\"In the words of sex columnist Dan Savage, the best sex partners are \u201cgood,\u00a0giving and game<\/a>.\u201d In other words,\u00a0they\u2019re skilled in bed (thanks to a lot of practice),\u00a0they\u2019re generous, and they\u2019re willing to try out whatever their partner\u2019s into, within reason.<\/p>

The three G\u2019s are especially important in long-term, committed relationships,\u00a0in which things can easily become stagnant in the bedroom, said Hirschman.<\/p>

\u201cLong-term couples with hot sex lives know that each person has their own unique erotic imagination,\u201d she said.\"<\/p>

7. They kiss and touch throughout the day, just to show they care.<\/h2>

\"A playful pinch on the butt or kiss before work matters more than you think. Putting a premium on non-sexy-time touch is a great way to remind your partner that you\u2019re content and still very much attracted to him or her, Chavez said. \"<\/p>

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