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We’re generally of the thought that there are no SET rules in dating (except to be respectful, legal, and consensual, obvi). But according to some so-called dating experts, there are three surprising questions you shouldn’t ask on a first date if you want to be successful. Via CNBC:<\/a><\/p>

1. What\u2019s your dating history?<\/h2>

It\u2019s tempting to inquire about a person\u2019s last serious relationship or how they\u2019re finding the current dating landscape, but questions like this are, to put it plainly, just not \u201cfun,\u201d Anderson says, something that a first date should be.<\/p>

\u201cThe only category of questions I\u2019d advise singles to avoid outright on early dates is around dating history,\u201d she says. \u201cThere\u2019s no need to bring exes into your first dates. Stay present, and focus on the here and now.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>

2. This was great! Do you want to go on another date?<\/h2>

Instead of nailing down the details of a second date while still on the first, take some time to think about whether you want to continue to get to know someone, says Grace Lee, a New York City-based dating coach and founder of\u00a0A Good First Date<\/a>.<\/p>

\u201cPlanning for the second date is a form of courtship, a form of testing that mutual interest,\u201d she says. \u201cThat\u2019s why I like to leave the first date open. I like leaving that planning process in tact. Now, one person has to take a little bit a risk.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>

3. Drinks has been fun \u2014 should we get dinner now?<\/h2>

It\u2019s generally a good sign if you don\u2019t want the date to end, but that doesn\u2019t mean you shouldn\u2019t let it, Lee says.<\/p>

\u201cThe problem with the seven-hour first date is you have this false sense of really being intimate without knowing if over time they will be consistent,\u201d she says.<\/p>

If you both feel a strong connection, you can continue to explore it on subsequent dates.<\/p><\/blockquote>

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We're generally of the thought that there are no SET rules in dating (except to be respectful, legal, and consensual, obvi). But according to some so-called dating experts, there are three surprising questions you shouldn't ask on a first date if you want to be successful. Via CNBC:<\/a><\/p>

1. What\u2019s your dating history?<\/h2>

It\u2019s tempting to inquire about a person\u2019s last serious relationship or how they\u2019re finding the current dating landscape, but questions like this are, to put it plainly, just not \u201cfun,\u201d Anderson says, something that a first date should be.<\/p>

\u201cThe only category of questions I\u2019d advise singles to avoid outright on early dates is around dating history,\u201d she says. \u201cThere\u2019s no need to bring exes into your first dates. Stay present, and focus on the here and now.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>

2. This was great! Do you want to go on another date?<\/h2>

Instead of nailing down the details of a second date while still on the first, take some time to think about whether you want to continue to get to know someone, says Grace Lee, a New York City-based dating coach and founder of\u00a0A Good First Date<\/a>.<\/p>

\u201cPlanning for the second date is a form of courtship, a form of testing that mutual interest,\u201d she says. \u201cThat\u2019s why I like to leave the first date open. I like leaving that planning process in tact. Now, one person has to take a little bit a risk.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>

3. Drinks has been fun \u2014 should we get dinner now?<\/h2>

It\u2019s generally a good sign if you don\u2019t want the date to end, but that doesn\u2019t mean you shouldn\u2019t let it, Lee says.<\/p>

\u201cThe problem with the seven-hour first date is you have this false sense of really being intimate without knowing if over time they will be consistent,\u201d she says.<\/p>

If you both feel a strong connection, you can continue to explore it on subsequent dates.<\/p><\/blockquote>

What do you think about these \"off-limits\" questions? Let us know on Instagram<\/a>!<\/p>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30161"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30161"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30161\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30163,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30161\/revisions\/30163"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}