{"id":30203,"date":"2024-10-07T08:53:26","date_gmt":"2024-10-07T15:53:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=30203"},"modified":"2024-10-07T08:53:27","modified_gmt":"2024-10-07T15:53:27","slug":"how-to-bless-and-release","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/how-to-bless-and-release\/","title":{"rendered":"How to &#8216;Bless and Release&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-30203\" data-postid=\"30203\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-30203 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    \t\t\t\t<div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_row themify_builder_row tb_baz9340 tb_first tf_w\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"row_inner col_align_top tb_col_count_1 tf_box tf_rel\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_column tb-column col-full tb_d0cw340 first\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<!-- module text -->\n<div  class=\"module module-text tb_xumj529   \" data-lazy=\"1\">\n\t    <div  class=\"tb_text_wrap\">\n\t\t<p>Picture this: you met someone on OBC, grabbed a drink at a local watering hole, chatted and had a nice time, but just didn&#8217;t feel the SPARK that made you wanna keep the night going. The next day, you get a text &#8211; &#8220;great time, let&#8217;s doing it again?&#8221;<\/p><p>What&#8217;s the nicest way to handle this? Ghost them? Go on another date because you feel bad? Well, One dating coach has a suggestion &#8211; to &#8216;Bless and Release&#8217;&#8230; or in other words, say thanks, but no thanks. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/bless-and-release-is-the-dating-strategy-you-need-in-your-life-ano_l_66fdcd9fe4b0ccc050c5baef\">Via HuffPo:<\/a><\/p><blockquote><p>As Womble explains in a\u00a0<a class=\" js-entry-link cet-external-link\" role=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen\/video\/7150406129128836395?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-vars-item-name=\"TikTok video\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"66fdcd9fe4b0ccc050c5baef\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen\/video\/7150406129128836395?lang=en\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"url\" data-vars-type=\"web_external_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"2\">TikTok video<\/a>\u00a0that\u2019s been making the rounds lately, when you \u201cbless and release\u201d someone you\u2019re seeing, you wish them well and let them go.<\/p><p>\u201cYou\u2019re telling them that this isn\u2019t right for you so you can own what you want and move forward,\u201d she says in the clip. \u201cWhen you give yourself permission to know what is right for you, you\u2019re opening up the space for those who are better for you\u00a0<em>and<\/em>\u00a0better for the other person as well.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<!-- \/module text --><!-- module plain text -->\n<div  class=\"module module-plain-text tb_72o0914 \" data-lazy=\"1\">\n        <div class=\"tb_text_wrap\">\n\t<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen\/video\/7150406129128836395\" data-video-id=\"7150406129128836395\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@datebrazen\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen?refer=embed\">@datebrazen<\/a> Replying to @dranuh_ <a title=\"greenscreen\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/greenscreen?refer=embed\">#greenscreen<\/a> there\u2019s exactly how to bless and release someone who is not right for you. \u201cClear is kind and unclear is unkind\u201d- Bren\u00e9 Brown. With these texts and in person script, you\u2019ll be able to have a clear and kind conversation which is a gift to both you and the other person. 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[&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":28640,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-and-sex","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"<p>Picture this: you met someone on OBC, grabbed a drink at a local watering hole, chatted and had a nice time, but just didn't feel the SPARK that made you wanna keep the night going. The next day, you get a text - \"great time, let's doing it again?\"<\/p><p>What's the nicest way to handle this? Ghost them? Go on another date because you feel bad? Well, One dating coach has a suggestion - to 'Bless and Release'... or in other words, say thanks, but no thanks. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/bless-and-release-is-the-dating-strategy-you-need-in-your-life-ano_l_66fdcd9fe4b0ccc050c5baef\">Via HuffPo:<\/a><\/p><blockquote><p>As Womble explains in a\u00a0<a role=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen\/video\/7150406129128836395?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-vars-item-name=\"TikTok video\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"66fdcd9fe4b0ccc050c5baef\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen\/video\/7150406129128836395?lang=en\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"url\" data-vars-type=\"web_external_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"2\">TikTok video<\/a>\u00a0that\u2019s been making the rounds lately, when you \u201cbless and release\u201d someone you\u2019re seeing, you wish them well and let them go.<\/p><p>\u201cYou\u2019re telling them that this isn\u2019t right for you so you can own what you want and move forward,\u201d she says in the clip. \u201cWhen you give yourself permission to know what is right for you, you\u2019re opening up the space for those who are better for you\u00a0<em>and<\/em>\u00a0better for the other person as well.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen\/video\/7150406129128836395\" data-video-id=\"7150406129128836395\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" > <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@datebrazen\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@datebrazen?refer=embed\">@datebrazen<\/a> Replying to @dranuh_ <a title=\"greenscreen\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/greenscreen?refer=embed\">#greenscreen<\/a> there\u2019s exactly how to bless and release someone who is not right for you. \u201cClear is kind and unclear is unkind\u201d- Bren\u00e9 Brown. With these texts and in person script, you\u2019ll be able to have a clear and kind conversation which is a gift to both you and the other person. 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