{"id":30983,"date":"2025-05-22T11:14:53","date_gmt":"2025-05-22T18:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=30983"},"modified":"2025-05-23T05:53:11","modified_gmt":"2025-05-23T12:53:11","slug":"when-she-says-nice-its-definitely-not-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/when-she-says-nice-its-definitely-not-nice\/","title":{"rendered":"When She Says \u201cNice\u201d\u2026 It\u2019s Definitely Not Nice"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-30983\" data-postid=\"30983\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-30983 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    \t\t\t\t<div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_row themify_builder_row tb_g617902 tb_first tf_w\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"row_inner col_align_top tb_col_count_1 tf_box tf_rel\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_column tb-column col-full tb_h9oo903 first\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<!-- module image -->\n<div  class=\"module module-image tb_q3vv598 image-top   tf_mw\" data-lazy=\"1\">\n        <div class=\"image-wrap tf_rel tf_mw\">\n\t\t    <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice-.jpg\" class=\"wp-post-image wp-image-30990\" title=\"nice\" alt=\"nice\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice-.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice--300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice--768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<!-- \/image-wrap -->\n    \n    \t<\/div>\n<!-- \/module image --><!-- module text -->\n<div  class=\"module module-text tb_58ph262   \" data-lazy=\"1\">\n\t    <div  class=\"tb_text_wrap\">\n\t\t<p data-start=\"223\" data-end=\"331\">We\u2019ve all been there. You shoot your shot. You think you\u2019re killing it. And then she drops the dreaded word:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"333\" data-end=\"344\"><strong data-start=\"333\" data-end=\"344\">\u201cNice.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"346\" data-end=\"596\">According to a dating expert in this <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mensjournal.com\/sex-relationships\/dating-expert-names-the-1-word-women-use-when-theyre-not-interested\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener\" data-start=\"383\" data-end=\"521\">Men\u2019s Journal article<\/a>, <em data-start=\"523\" data-end=\"531\">\u201cnice\u201d<\/em> is the No. 1 word women use when they\u2019re just not that into you.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"598\" data-end=\"603\">Ouch.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"605\" data-end=\"684\">It&#8217;s like the romantic version of being high-fived in the face with a wet sock.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"686\" data-end=\"1020\">&#8220;Nice&#8221; is the speed bump of compliments. It&#8217;s what you say about your cousin\u2019s weird watercolor painting. It\u2019s what you call your neighbor\u2019s new minivan. It\u2019s what your mom says when she meets your friend who definitely just got out of prison. It&#8217;s safe. It\u2019s distant. It\u2019s the verbal shrug that says, <em data-start=\"988\" data-end=\"1020\">&#8220;This ain&#8217;t happening, chief.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1022\" data-end=\"1171\">So if you\u2019re out there in the wild world of dating apps getting ghosted, breadcrumbed, or hit with a hard \u201cnice,\u201d maybe it\u2019s time to shake things up.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1173\" data-end=\"1392\">At <strong data-start=\"1176\" data-end=\"1201\">OBC (OnlineBootyCall)<\/strong>, we don\u2019t do &#8220;nice.&#8221; We do <strong data-start=\"1229\" data-end=\"1236\">fun<\/strong>, <strong data-start=\"1238\" data-end=\"1248\">flirty<\/strong>, and <strong data-start=\"1254\" data-end=\"1271\">zero pressure<\/strong> connections with real people who are down to vibe, not just judge your hinge prompt responses like it\u2019s a job interview.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1394\" data-end=\"1552\">So if you\u2019re tired of decoding vague texts, analyzing emoji tone, or wondering if \u201cnice\u201d means \u201cI\u2019ll think about it\u201d (spoiler: it doesn\u2019t), come hang with us.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1554\" data-end=\"1621\">Sexy. Chill. No games. Just real people looking for real chemistry.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1623\" data-end=\"1682\">? <strong data-start=\"1626\" data-end=\"1644\">Join OBC today<\/strong> \u2013 where no one settles for &#8220;nice.&#8221; ?<\/p>    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<!-- \/module text -->\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve all been there. You shoot your shot. You think you\u2019re killing it. And then she drops the dreaded word: \u201cNice.\u201d According to a dating expert in this Men\u2019s Journal article, \u201cnice\u201d is the No. 1 word women use when they\u2019re just not that into you. Ouch. It&#8217;s like the romantic version of being high-fived [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-and-sex","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"<img src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice-.jpg\" title=\"nice\" alt=\"nice\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice-.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice--300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/nice--768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"223\" data-end=\"331\">We\u2019ve all been there. You shoot your shot. You think you\u2019re killing it. And then she drops the dreaded word:<\/p> <p data-start=\"333\" data-end=\"344\"><strong data-start=\"333\" data-end=\"344\">\u201cNice.\u201d<\/strong><\/p> <p data-start=\"346\" data-end=\"596\">According to a dating expert in this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mensjournal.com\/sex-relationships\/dating-expert-names-the-1-word-women-use-when-theyre-not-interested\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener\" data-start=\"383\" data-end=\"521\">Men\u2019s Journal article<\/a>, <em data-start=\"523\" data-end=\"531\">\u201cnice\u201d<\/em> is the No. 1 word women use when they\u2019re just not that into you.<\/p> <p data-start=\"598\" data-end=\"603\">Ouch.<\/p> <p data-start=\"605\" data-end=\"684\">It's like the romantic version of being high-fived in the face with a wet sock.<\/p> <p data-start=\"686\" data-end=\"1020\">\"Nice\" is the speed bump of compliments. It's what you say about your cousin\u2019s weird watercolor painting. It\u2019s what you call your neighbor\u2019s new minivan. It\u2019s what your mom says when she meets your friend who definitely just got out of prison. It's safe. It\u2019s distant. It\u2019s the verbal shrug that says, <em data-start=\"988\" data-end=\"1020\">\"This ain't happening, chief.\"<\/em><\/p> <p data-start=\"1022\" data-end=\"1171\">So if you\u2019re out there in the wild world of dating apps getting ghosted, breadcrumbed, or hit with a hard \u201cnice,\u201d maybe it\u2019s time to shake things up.<\/p> <p data-start=\"1173\" data-end=\"1392\">At <strong data-start=\"1176\" data-end=\"1201\">OBC (OnlineBootyCall)<\/strong>, we don\u2019t do \"nice.\" We do <strong data-start=\"1229\" data-end=\"1236\">fun<\/strong>, <strong data-start=\"1238\" data-end=\"1248\">flirty<\/strong>, and <strong data-start=\"1254\" data-end=\"1271\">zero pressure<\/strong> connections with real people who are down to vibe, not just judge your hinge prompt responses like it\u2019s a job interview.<\/p> <p data-start=\"1394\" data-end=\"1552\">So if you\u2019re tired of decoding vague texts, analyzing emoji tone, or wondering if \u201cnice\u201d means \u201cI\u2019ll think about it\u201d (spoiler: it doesn\u2019t), come hang with us.<\/p> <p data-start=\"1554\" data-end=\"1621\">Sexy. Chill. No games. Just real people looking for real chemistry.<\/p> <p data-start=\"1623\" data-end=\"1682\">? <strong data-start=\"1626\" data-end=\"1644\">Join OBC today<\/strong> \u2013 where no one settles for \"nice.\" ?<\/p>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30983"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30983"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30992,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30983\/revisions\/30992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}