{"id":32127,"date":"2026-06-26T14:30:57","date_gmt":"2026-06-26T21:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/?p=32127"},"modified":"2026-06-26T14:30:58","modified_gmt":"2026-06-26T21:30:58","slug":"thank-god-yall-didnt-know-me-when-i-was-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/thank-god-yall-didnt-know-me-when-i-was-single\/","title":{"rendered":"“Thank God Y’all Didn\u2019t Know Me When I Was Single”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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The internet is currently having a collective meltdown over a viral clip of A$AP Rocky during his <\/span>Don\u2019t Be Dumb<\/span><\/i> tour.<\/span><\/p>

While onstage performing for a massive crowd, the rapper pointed out a few fans and flagrantly shouted: <\/span>“Thank god y’all didn’t know me when I was single, I would’ve f<\/span><\/i>***ed the s***<\/span>out of you if you was pretty.” He then added that a few other women in the front row were <\/span>“fine as f<\/span><\/i>***<\/span>k.”<\/span><\/i><\/p>

Predictably, Rihanna\u2019s loyal fan base (the Navy) immediately went to war in the comments.<\/span> Critics<\/a> are calling his onstage confessions “disrespectful,” “humiliating,” and “peculiar behavior” for a man who shares three kids with one of the most powerful women on earth.<\/span><\/p>

But let\u2019s play devil’s advocate for a hot second.<\/p>

Obviously, screaming to a stadium of gorgeous women that you would\u2019ve slept with them is a high-risk move (and you better pray your partner has the ultimate secure attachment style before you try it). But behind the internet’s outrage lies a weird, lingering puritanical fear: we are still absolutely terrified of acknowledging that our partners had a sex life, a past, and desire before they met us.<\/p>

If we were all a little more open about our pasts and our desires, wouldn’t we all be a whole lot happier? Here is why pretending your partner was a virgin before they met you is killing the vibe:<\/p>

1. Your Past Is What Made You Good in Bed<\/h3>

Let\u2019s be real: nobody actually wants to date a fully grown adult who has zero experience, zero game, and never explored their sexuality. The “single life” era is where people figure out what they like, what they don\u2019t like, and how to please a partner. A$AP Rocky acknowledging he was a wild single guy isn’t a diss to Rihanna; it\u2019s just facts.<\/p>

2. Desire Doesn’t Just Die When You\u2019re in a Relationship<\/h3>

Monogamy means choosing to be with one person; it doesn’t mean your eyes suddenly stop working. Acknowledging that other people are attractive, or joking about how wild you used to be, doesn’t mean you love your partner any less. In fact, being secure enough to joke about your past single days takes a lot of pressure off a relationship.<\/p>

3. Suppressing Your Desires Is Exhausting<\/h3>

When people try to act entirely pure, innocent, and scrubbed of any sexual edge, it breeds resentment. Pretending you don\u2019t have a past or that you don’t still possess a healthy sex drive just makes dating boring. Embracing your inner freak\u2014even if you’ve chosen to settle down\u2014keeps life fun.<\/p>

The Golden Rule: As long as your partner is completely in on the joke, secure in the relationship, and okay with you being a bit rowdy, who cares what the internet thinks?<\/p><\/blockquote>

If you are tired of the fake, overly sanitized version of modern romance, it\u2019s time to find a community that actually embraces desire, raw honesty, and pure fun.<\/p>

At OnlineBootyCall, we don\u2019t judge your past\u2014we celebrate it. We\u2019re all about low-stakes, high-fun, no-strings-attached connections where you can be completely yourself, without the heavy judgment of mainstream apps.<\/p>

Ready to unleash your inner single self and see who is looking for some fun near you?<\/p>

Click here to join OBC for FREE today!<\/a> Want to unlock even more features and keep your casual game sharp? Upgrade your account for as little as $10 a month. Sign up now and own your desires!<\/p> <\/div>\n<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The internet is currently having a collective meltdown over a viral clip of A$AP Rocky during his Don\u2019t Be Dumb tour.While onstage performing for a massive crowd, the rapper pointed out a few fans and flagrantly shouted: “Thank god y’all didn’t know me when I was single, I would’ve f***ed the s***out of you if […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3638],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-celebrity-gossip","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"\"Screenshot\"\n

The internet is currently having a collective meltdown over a viral clip of A$AP Rocky during his Don\u2019t Be Dumb<\/i> tour.<\/p>

While onstage performing for a massive crowd, the rapper pointed out a few fans and flagrantly shouted: \"Thank god y'all didn't know me when I was single, I would've f<\/i>***ed the s***out of you if you was pretty.\" He then added that a few other women in the front row were \"fine as f<\/i>***k.\"<\/i><\/p>

Predictably, Rihanna\u2019s loyal fan base (the Navy) immediately went to war in the comments. Critics<\/a> are calling his onstage confessions \"disrespectful,\" \"humiliating,\" and \"peculiar behavior\" for a man who shares three kids with one of the most powerful women on earth.<\/p>

But let\u2019s play devil's advocate for a hot second.<\/p>

Obviously, screaming to a stadium of gorgeous women that you would\u2019ve slept with them is a high-risk move (and you better pray your partner has the ultimate secure attachment style before you try it). But behind the internet's outrage lies a weird, lingering puritanical fear: we are still absolutely terrified of acknowledging that our partners had a sex life, a past, and desire before they met us.<\/p>

If we were all a little more open about our pasts and our desires, wouldn't we all be a whole lot happier? Here is why pretending your partner was a virgin before they met you is killing the vibe:<\/p>

1. Your Past Is What Made You Good in Bed<\/h3>

Let\u2019s be real: nobody actually wants to date a fully grown adult who has zero experience, zero game, and never explored their sexuality. The \"single life\" era is where people figure out what they like, what they don\u2019t like, and how to please a partner. A$AP Rocky acknowledging he was a wild single guy isn't a diss to Rihanna; it\u2019s just facts.<\/p>

2. Desire Doesn't Just Die When You\u2019re in a Relationship<\/h3>

Monogamy means choosing to be with one person; it doesn't mean your eyes suddenly stop working. Acknowledging that other people are attractive, or joking about how wild you used to be, doesn't mean you love your partner any less. In fact, being secure enough to joke about your past single days takes a lot of pressure off a relationship.<\/p>

3. Suppressing Your Desires Is Exhausting<\/h3>

When people try to act entirely pure, innocent, and scrubbed of any sexual edge, it breeds resentment. Pretending you don\u2019t have a past or that you don't still possess a healthy sex drive just makes dating boring. Embracing your inner freak\u2014even if you've chosen to settle down\u2014keeps life fun.<\/p>

The Golden Rule: As long as your partner is completely in on the joke, secure in the relationship, and okay with you being a bit rowdy, who cares what the internet thinks?<\/p><\/blockquote>

If you are tired of the fake, overly sanitized version of modern romance, it\u2019s time to find a community that actually embraces desire, raw honesty, and pure fun.<\/p>

At OnlineBootyCall, we don\u2019t judge your past\u2014we celebrate it. We\u2019re all about low-stakes, high-fun, no-strings-attached connections where you can be completely yourself, without the heavy judgment of mainstream apps.<\/p>

Ready to unleash your inner single self and see who is looking for some fun near you?<\/p>

Click here to join OBC for FREE today!<\/a> Want to unlock even more features and keep your casual game sharp? Upgrade your account for as little as $10 a month. Sign up now and own your desires!<\/p>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32127"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32127\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32130,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32127\/revisions\/32130"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}