{"id":3284,"date":"2010-02-25T14:54:21","date_gmt":"2010-02-25T21:54:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bcu.onlinebootycall.com\/?p=3284"},"modified":"2010-02-25T14:54:21","modified_gmt":"2010-02-25T21:54:21","slug":"can-your-booty-call-turn-into-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/can-your-booty-call-turn-into-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Your Booty Call Turn into a Relationship?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3300\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3300\" style=\"width: 430px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3300\" title=\"bored couple\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/bored-couple.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"430\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/bored-couple.jpg 430w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/bored-couple-300x209.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/bored-couple-340x237.jpg 340w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 430px) 100vw, 430px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3300\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">img @ virginmedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In a word, no.<\/p>\n<p>In two words, probably not.<\/p>\n<p>In a bunch of words, I guess it&#8217;s not implausible, but it&#8217;s probably the worst idea since Jimmy Dean&#8217;s Chocolate Chip Pancake Wrapped Sausage. If you are considering venturing into a relationship from your current booty call\/friends with benefits situation, you should first ask yourself these couple questions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Are you both willing to be exclusive?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asking your friends-with-benefits to get into a relationship is like asking someone to go through their entire wardrobe, which they&#8217;ve been adding to for years, and choosing one outfit to wear for the rest of the year. And although you might think you&#8217;ll be content wearing the same jeans and tee everyday, you might realize a couple months in that that t-shirt is getting really smelly, and the jeans are getting all torn up, if you catch my drift.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Do you actually like each other?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you even <em>know<\/em> each other? Sex is incredibly important in a relationship, obviously, but it&#8217;s not the only important thing. If you&#8217;ve been following our booty call rules, you shouldn&#8217;t really know that much about each other, and you probably should know more about your boy\/girlfriend than just their favorite sex position.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Why oh WHY do you want a relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Relationships are work. They can get tough, and they can put you through some serious stress. If you&#8217;re just craving a relationship because you&#8217;re lonely, you are way better off getting a puppy or calling a friend to hang out. You have a great situation going on, with fun, no-strings-attached sex while keeping your independence, and you shouldn&#8217;t give that up unless you are both genuinely interested in pursuing a long term, exclusive (re: booooring) relationship.<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-3284\" data-postid=\"3284\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-3284 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a word, no. In two words, probably not. In a bunch of words, I guess it&#8217;s not implausible, but it&#8217;s probably the worst idea since Jimmy Dean&#8217;s Chocolate Chip Pancake Wrapped Sausage. If you are considering venturing into a relationship from your current booty call\/friends with benefits situation, you should first ask yourself these [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,3,4],"tags":[1871,1943,69,1250,1942,217,725,128],"class_list":["post-3284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advice","category-dating-and-sex","category-thelife","tag-booty-call-advice","tag-can-booty-calls-become-relationships","tag-dating-advice","tag-friends-with-benefits","tag-relationship-advice","tag-relationships","tag-rules","tag-sex","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"builder_content":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3284"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3284"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3284\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3304,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3284\/revisions\/3304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}