{"id":689,"date":"2009-09-13T22:23:32","date_gmt":"2009-09-13T22:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bcu.onlinebootycall.com\/?p=689"},"modified":"2009-09-18T16:01:43","modified_gmt":"2009-09-18T16:01:43","slug":"was-this-a-success-or-a-failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlinebootycall.com\/blog\/was-this-a-success-or-a-failure\/","title":{"rendered":"Was This A Success Or A Failure?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We found this while surfing the forums of other dating sites\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve met some jerks in my life, but this one has been by far the worst. I\u2019ll start off by saying how I noticed a lot of men here complain about not getting messages. Therefore, I decided to take it upon myself to message men in my area who I found interesting. This one in particular was creative, intelligent and handsome\u2026or so his profile led me to believe. We messaged each other on and off through here and IM for about 3 weeks before we met. It\u2019s amazing how much of a connection you can make with someone just by talking to them online. We had a lot in common and a lot of the same outlooks. I could not wait to meet him in person.<\/p>\n<p>So the day we meet rolls around and I dress up nicely and wear my hair beautifully, and let\u2019s face it\u2026I looked HOT. We meet at a little cafe\/restaurant place, and he was just\u2026rude. He barely made eye contact with me, he spoke in a bored monotone voice. I did most of the talking, and I swear to God he would kind of roll his eyes in a childish way. He habitually checked his watch and his cell phone. When the meal ended he only offered to pay for his half, and then bails. Doesn\u2019t offer me a ride or anything. What did I do wrong? It was so depressing since I really liked him online.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, I go home and drink almost a full bottle of wine when I get a text message from him. He asks if I want to come over his place and hang out, maybe watch a movie. I thought \u201cThis is great, he\u2019s going to make it up to me and maybe he was just nervous before\u201d. Well I get there and drink some more with him, and next thing you know we\u2019re having sex. At the end of the night he calls me a cab and I go home, THINKING that this is just the first of many dates. The last thing he said was that he\u2019d call to take me out to concert nearby.<\/p>\n<p>A week comes and goes, no word from him. I text him and no reply. I call and get the answering machine. I write him on Okcupid and he deletes his whole account. I was so baffled. That was until saw that he created a NEW profile just yesterday. All it says is that he had a bad okcupid experience, and to please have a full shot of your body.<\/p>\n<p>Ok. I get what this asshole did. He treated me like complete shit because I\u2019m not super model skinny. I don\u2019t have a full body pic, but I did tell him that I was average, which is TRUE. 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