In the chaotic world of modern dating, there’s a new term rewriting the rules: clear-coding.
Tired of decoding "What are we?" texts? Exasperated by users who claim they are "just seeing what's out there" before vanishing? Clear-coding is the solution. It means ditching the mixed signals and being explicitly straightforward about your intentions before the first message is sent.
At OBC, we aren't just fans of clear-coding; we've built it directly into the platform. When you create your profile, you are encouraged to select exactly what you are looking for from our curated list of expectations.
By selecting your expectation, you are clear-coding your profile. No mind-reading required. Here is a breakdown of what those OBC options actually mean:
Decoding the OBC Expectations
The "Expectations" dropdown on OBC (as seen in the image above) is designed to let you define the nature of your interaction immediately. Here’s what each choice signals:
None
You are playing it completely cool. Choosing "None" suggests you are in observation mode. You aren't committing to a specific goal and might just want to browse or respond on a case-by-case basis. It's the maximum flexibility, minimum commitment setting.
Meet new people
This is your "open book" option. You are looking to expand your social circle. While you might be open to chemistry if it happens, the primary goal is simply connecting with individuals. It keeps things casual and low-pressure.
Casual dating
You are actively looking for romance, but without the baggage. This means dinners, movies, drinks, and flirting, but everyone understands this isn't a pipeline to a long-term commitment or marriage. It's dating for the fun of dating.
Friends first, benefits later
This is a transparent roadmap for a FWB scenario. You want to establish a genuine connection or friendship before intimacy enters the equation. This option prioritizes the "friends" part before the "benefits" part.
Booty Calls only.
The ultimate clear-code. As the image shows, this user knows exactly what they want. It bypasses small talk and logistics. This is a call for immediate, uncomplicated, intimate encounters. No gray area here.
Depends on your game.
The wild card. Choosing this signals that you are adaptable but selective. You are essentially telling others: "You have the power to convince me. Impress me, and I’m open to whatever chemistry arises."
The OBC Promise: Less Ambiguity, More Connection
We encourage all OBC users to clear-code their profiles. When you use these dropdowns, you are actively respecting other users’ time—and your own.
You’re signaling to potential partners, "This is who I am, and this is exactly what I want." If that matches what they want, the path to a connection is fast, efficient, and, most importantly, fun.
Ready to find exactly what you are looking for? Update your expectations in your OBC profile today and start making connections that matter.