There’s a new viral video making the rounds where creator Chand Bhangal lays out her theory on why so many women are staying single — and spoiler alert: it’s not because they “can’t find a man.” She says women are raised to be high-achieving perfectionists while men… aren’t always held to the same standard. The result? A whole lot of women who’d rather stay single than settle for less.

And judging by the millions of views (and even a co-sign from SZA), a lot of people are nodding along. (Click here to watch the vid!)

Now, we’re not sure we agree with every single point she makes — dating is messy, complicated, and everyone’s story is different. But one thing we definitely do agree with? Staying single because you want to, not because you have to, is 100% valid.

Being Single Is a Power Move

Here’s the thing: being single isn’t a “waiting room” for real life. It is real life. And it can be a pretty awesome chapter if you let it.

• You’re not “too picky.” You’re just not accepting crumbs when you deserve the whole damn cake.

• You’re not “missing out.” You’re building a life that’s so good, anyone who joins it has to add to it.

• You’re not “behind.” You’re just not rushing into something that doesn’t serve you — and that’s a flex.

The truth is, more people than ever are choosing to fly solo until they meet someone who actually fits their vibe. And honestly? That’s something worth celebrating.

We do have to throw in a little reality check:

• Nobody is perfect — not even your future dream partner.

• Dating expectations can get wild thanks to social media.

• And yes, single life can have its lonely nights (we see you, Friday-night Netflix crew).

But none of that means you have to rush into a situationship you’re not excited about. You’re allowed to hold out for something real — and still have fun in the meantime.

That’s where we come in. On OBC, you don’t have to choose between “settling down” and “staying home.” You can flirt, date, hook up, or explore — without promising forever to anyone.

• Casual dates that don’t come with a five-year plan.

• Spontaneous hookups without the morning-after awkwardness.

• Real connections that might surprise you — or just make your weekend more fun.

So yeah, stay single. Stay picky. Stay fabulous. And while you’re out here building your best life, let OBC make it a little more exciting. Because holding out for “the one” doesn’t mean you can’t have some unforgettable nights with “the fun one” in the meantime.