When someone like Dakota Johnson—fresh off the end of an engagement with Chris Martin—takes her time, catches her breath, and then starts tentatively dating again, we’re reminded that healing isn’t a straight line. According to an article in ELLE, Dakota is “in a great place” following the breakup, and is slowly dipping her toes back …
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5 First Date Horror Stories
There’s something thrilling about a first date — the promise of new connection, the hope that maybe this time things will click. But let’s be honest: first dates can also be gloriously unpredictable in all the wrong ways. You’re meeting someone for the first time, squinting at their photo, wondering if they’re as funny in …
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Pick-Up Lines Are Dead? Not On OBC
Hey OBC fam! ?So, we just caught this piece from the New York Post about how traditional pick-up lines may be on their last leg in the modern dating scene. The article argues that in an era ruled by swipes, text messages at 2 a.m., and endless app browsing, the old “Hey baby, are you …
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Why Real Life Love Stories Don’t Need a Happy Ending to Be Good
Hollywood really did a number on us. Decades of movies have taught us that every love story needs a perfect ending: rain pouring, someone running through an airport, swelling music, credits roll. But in real life? Sometimes the movie just ends mid-scene. And that’s not tragic—it’s real. Not every spark turns into a wedding. Not …
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When Your Date Turns Into Someone’s TikTok Clip
So we just read this gem of an article from Rolling Stone—yes, that Rolling Stone—about how Gen Z men are so paranoid about being filmed on dates that many are flat-out opting out of dating altogether. And you know what? We get it. Because this is wild. And yes, it’s gross.Picture this: you’re finally on …
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When Dating Feels “Bitterly Disappointing," Head to OBC
Pop star Lily Allen just said post-divorce dating has been “bitterly disappointing,” calling it punishing, humiliating, and just… not it. (via The Cut) And honestly? Same, girl. Re-entering the dating scene after a breakup can feel like being dropped into a reality show you didn’t audition for. Everyone’s swiping, ghosting, or “just seeing where it …
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Casual Dating is the Ultimate Life Hack for Overthinkers
If you’ve ever replayed a text 47 times before hitting send, congratulations — you’re an overthinker. Your brain’s basically a 24/7 dating committee, analyzing tone, punctuation, and the time stamp on that “hey ;).”But here’s the thing: overthinking ruins the fun part. You’re not supposed to treat a first date like a NASA launch sequence. …
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4 Techniques to Make Sex Better for Women
We all wanna have good time with our booty calls, but often women get the short end of the stick (no pun intended), especially if it takes more time, energy, and creativity to get her off. But a recent study is here to help, sharing four techniques women claim are ideal for taking them to …
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How Cuffing Season Drains Your Bank Account (And How to Avoid That!)
Essence just dropped a truth bomb: inflation isn’t just hitting your grocery bill—it’s coming for your love life, too. According to their recent piece on the cost of cuffing season, more than half of Black singles are cutting back on dates, and nearly 60% are now more money-conscious about how they date. Even worse, 40% …
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The Most Affordable Cities for Singles
Love shouldn’t cost you an arm and a leg — but in some cities, it comes close. According to recent analyses of dating affordability, cities like Charlotte, Detroit, and Orlando rank among the lowest in total cost of dating. YahooThat said, when you factor in income levels, those cities often don’t stay at the top …
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