Dating & Sex
A recent news story from NBC News highlights a disturbing trend in online dating: women who prey on men for financial gain. In this case, a Las Vegas woman allegedly drugged and robbed older men she met on dating apps, leaving them vulnerable and unaware until it was too late.While online romance can be rewarding, …
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WHy We Get "The Ick"
Have you ever been excited about someone, only to be suddenly turned off by a minor habit or behavior? That gut reaction, often called "the ick," might not be as random as it seems. A new study sheds light on why people experience this phenomenon in dating—and it turns out, science plays a big role.Researchers …
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To Do List: LEVEL UP Your Dating Profile
We're always surprised by the amount of profiles here on OBC that have absolutely no info. When you're competing against others to get the attention of singles, why wouldn't you use every avenue to show your worth, instead of just relying on your photos? Over at MindBodyGreen, they have some great ideas for fun, interesting, …
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The 30 Most Cringe Messages You Can Send on Dating Apps
Sending a first message on a dating site can be intimidating. What can you say that will intrigue and entice, but won't put anyone off? Is it silly or stupid, sexy or too suggestive? A recent study shared on Yahoo News revealed the messages that singles do NOT want to receive -- and you might …
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3 Reasons Watching the Super Bowl is a Great First Date
3 Reasons Watching the Super Bowl Makes a Great First Date First dates can be nerve-wracking—what if there’s an awkward silence? What if you run out of things to say? That’s where the Super Bowl comes in. Whether you're a die-hard football fan or just there for the commercials, watching the big game together makes …
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Singles are Abstaining... for their Mental Health?!
It's a new year - a time to meet new people, try new ideas for fun dates, geting creative in the bedroom, and... celibacy? Say WHAT? It's true: for some, the new years means abstaining from any and all sexual pleasure. WE ARE NOT IN FAVOR. Via Daily Mail: Over half of people on dating …
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The 3 Questions Experts Say to Avoid on a First Date
We're generally of the thought that there are no SET rules in dating (except to be respectful, legal, and consensual, obvi). But according to some so-called dating experts, there are three surprising questions you shouldn't ask on a first date if you want to be successful. Via CNBC:1. What’s your dating history?It’s tempting to inquire …
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Dating in a Blue and Red World
As of yesterday, the US has a new president, and there are a LOT of feelings about it! In a world where politics often feels like a dividing line, dating someone with different political views can feel next to impossible. However, despite the challenges, people do it successfully more often than you'd think, especially in …
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Protip: Your First Online Dating Message Shouldn't Be X-Rated
As a casual dating site that totally celebrates fun, casual hookups and sexual freedom, you might be surprised to learn that we DON'T recommend shooting off super explicit, raunchy messages as your first communication with other members. And now, there's a study to explain why: almost NO ONE LIKES IT. Via Forbes: Speaking of a …
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It's Divorce Day.
Ah, a new year - an opportunity to give up old habits, get a fresh start, and... get divorced? Via Daily Mail: The first working Monday in January has long held the grim nickname of 'Divorce Day' - with January seeing a spike in breakups. Michelle Smith, divorce financial analyst, told New York Daily News …
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