Dating & Sex
As of yesterday, the US has a new president, and there are a LOT of feelings about it! In a world where politics often feels like a dividing line, dating someone with different political views can feel next to impossible. However, despite the challenges, people do it successfully more often than you'd think, especially in …
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Protip: Your First Online Dating Message Shouldn't Be X-Rated
As a casual dating site that totally celebrates fun, casual hookups and sexual freedom, you might be surprised to learn that we DON'T recommend shooting off super explicit, raunchy messages as your first communication with other members. And now, there's a study to explain why: almost NO ONE LIKES IT. Via Forbes: Speaking of a …
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It's Divorce Day.
Ah, a new year - an opportunity to give up old habits, get a fresh start, and... get divorced? Via Daily Mail: The first working Monday in January has long held the grim nickname of 'Divorce Day' - with January seeing a spike in breakups. Michelle Smith, divorce financial analyst, told New York Daily News …
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Get More Responses on OBC in 2025 With These Tips
When it comes to casual dating, making a strong impression can significantly boost your chances of receiving responses. Here are three actionable tips to help you stand out and engage more effectively on OBC:1. Craft an Intriguing ProfileYour profile is your first opportunity to catch someone's attention. Here’s how to make it irresistible:Choose a standout …
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3 Reasons to Try Casual Online Dating in 2025
Looking to meet new people without the pressure of a serious commitment? Casual online dating is thriving in 2025, and it’s easier than ever to find like-minded connections. Here’s why you should give it a try:1. Effortless ConnectionsModern dating apps are built for instant chemistry. Whether you’re seeking fun conversation, spontaneous meetups, or just someone …
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In 2025, Have Golden Retriever Energy to Get More Dates
We've made it to the end of 2024 - how on EARTH did that happen? And while we can look back at the many dating trends of the last year and think, ick, how about instead we look forward to what will help you have fun, get laid, and even find love in 2025?Enter GOLDEN …
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New Years Single Life Resolutions
Every year we make resolutions. Sometimes they are about our health or our work life, or pledging to do more advocacy or non-profit work. Over here at OBC, along with those important goals, our resolution is one big life-encompassing goal: to enjoy the single life! Of course, that doesn't just mean to go out and …
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Dating Trends for Black Singles in 2025
Another year is about to come to a close – and you might be wondering, what's up for 2025? For singles of all races, there are questions of how to meet, how fast to jump into bed, and whether casual or serious dating is for you. For black singles, there may be even more questions. …
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Tips for Hooking Up at Your Parents' House
According to the Holiday Hometown Hook-Up Survey, nearly 60% of respondents said they planned on having casual sex with someone when they're home for the holidays. We all remember SNL's classic "Doin it on My Twin Bed" -- but if you really are headed home for the holidays and wanna get it on, VICE has …
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10 LOL Single at Christmas Memes
Even though it feels like New Years was just a week ago, Christmas 2023 is upon us, and those of us that are on #teamSINGLE are taking a deep breath as we prepare for the peppering of questions at the holiday table by family members wondering when you're gonna settle down already? If anyone else …
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