Dating & Sex
If you're single and ready to mingle, you've probably been having quite the summer, enjoying hook ups after a couple years of being a total shut in. But remember, sex isn't all fun and games (even if it mostly is!) -- here are some important facts you should know before hitting up your booty call: …
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To Share or NOT SHARE on Your Dating Profile
We love that our OBC members are open about their needs, desires, and standards in their profiles (oh, and their bodies, wink wink). It shows they're not here to play games, but just want to have fun, meet new people, and (safely) hook up without having to promise "forever". However, according to a new study, …
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4 Tips For Safely, Successfully Suggesting Sex
In a post-pandemic world, if you're just getting back into the casual dating pool, you may feel uncomfortable or awkward and just unsure how to "seal the deal" when you feel the sexual tension tightening between you and a date. Do you just "go for it"? How do you manage consent? Are there any off-limits …
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Over Dating People? Date a New City!
If you seem to have met just about every single within your city limits, or feel like you may actually be the only single person left in the region, maybe it's time to throw in the towel and say sayonara to your city and try something new - like date a whole new country! Via …
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This Indian Treat Makes You Last Longer in Bed
We've talked before about the many aphrodisiac treats out there, and now it's time to introduce a new one: paan, an Indian dessert wrapped in a betel leaf encasing a variety of ingredients including areca or betel nut, fennel seeds, cloves, and gulkand – a preserve made with rose petals. Via VICE: The Kohinoor Paan, …
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Online Dating 10 Years Later
Online dating is no longer a new novel trend, its a part of most single folks' daily life. Over at BuzzFeed, they asked singles how the online dating sphere has changed in the last decade, and here's what they had to say: 1. "People are less interested in actually putting in some effort to get …
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Uh, WTF is Vabbing?
It's 2022, and you just never know what strange craze is gonna hit social media. This week, it's "vabbing", which is a combination of "vagina" and "Dabbing" -- but if you like us are STILL confused as to what this is, I'll let BuzzFeed take the wheel from here: As you can probably guess by …
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This Guy Teaches Women to Give Better BJs
Remember that scene from Old School where Will Ferrell's wife and her friends hire Andy Dick's character to teach them to give blow jobs? Well, turns out that's a real job, but the actual purveyor of this service is Bill McKinley, a guy living in Hell's Kitchen with LOTS of oral experience, who shared his …
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Would You Get a Vasectomy?
In an age where "family planning" is in the forefront of peoples' minds and they worry about the possibility of birth control failing, many men are seeking out a more permanent solution to ensure they don't get anyone pregnant: vasectomy. However, a wide swath of male patients are understandably nervous to put their most sensitive …
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Privacy in Online Dating Questions: Answered
If you're new to online dating, you might feel like the first time you rode a bike. Excited, but a little nervous that you're gonna totally BIFF it. Over at the Guardian, they asked experts to answer a few of the most often wondered privacy questions for those about to embark on meeting singles on …
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