Dating & Sex

Swiped Right… and Blackmailed? The Rise of “Sextortion” on Dating Apps

Dating apps are supposed to be fun. Flirty. Maybe a little chaotic.Not… criminal.But a recent report from KTLA highlights a growing threat users need to know about: “sextortion” scams targeting people on dating platforms.What’s actually happening?According to local authorities, scammers are posing as attractive matches on dating and social media apps. The playbook is fast …
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The Struggle is Real: Dating as a Man in 2026 (and how OBC can help!)

If you want an honest look at modern dating, don’t ask your friends.Ask Google.According to a recent piece from HuffPost, men are constantly searching things like “Why is dating so hard?” and “Why did she stop texting me?”—usually late at night after a confusing date or a promising match suddenly disappears.And honestly? Fair questions.Modern dating …
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It’s Time to Stop Acting Like Younger Men + Older Women Is Weird

Alright OBC, gather round.Sienna Miller recently said what many of us have been thinking for years. Relationships where the woman is older than the man should not be treated like some scandalous social experiment. They should be normal. Casual. Unremarkable. Just two adults dating.Revolutionary concept, right?Miller, 44, has been happily partnered with Oli Green, who …
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Too Many Dating Options Is a Problem

Apparently, having endless dating options is not the flex we were promised.A recent study covered by HuffPost UK has confirmed what many of us already suspected while staring blankly at a dating app at 11.47pm. Too many choices do not make dating better. They make it messier, louder, and far more exhausting. Especially for men, …
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Ghostlighting: Somehow Worse Than Ghosting

Just when it felt like dating culture could not get more confusing, a new term entered the conversation and immediately raised everyone’s blood pressure. Ghostlighting is exactly what it sounds like, a combination of ghosting and gaslighting that manages to feel even more disorienting than either on its own.If ghosting is disappearing without explanation, and …
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In Defense of Chasing Fireworks

Somewhere along the way, dating advice decided that wanting chemistry was a character flaw.You have probably heard it before. Stop chasing fireworks. Look for stability. Give the slow burn a chance. Don’t trust the spark.And sure, that advice makes sense if you are actively shopping for a forever person with a joint savings account and …
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Is Pickleball the OBC of Sports?

If you’ve spent any time in New York City or ANY major metropolitan area lately, you’ve probably noticed something curious happening on public courts, rooftops, and rec centers across town: singles aren’t just playing pickleball—they’re meeting there.There’s a reason pickleball has quietly become one of the most flirt-friendly sports in the city. And it’s the …
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5 NON-ROMANTIC Ways to Spend Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day: created by the Romans, commercialized by Victorian England, now a total nightmare. Whether you're single, not into the mushy stuff, or just looking for a fresh way to spend the lamest of all holidays this February 14th, there are plenty of fun ways to celebrate this weekend. Here are five things you can …
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WalletHub Just Ranked the Best (and …Uh…Not-So-Best) States for Singles

Dating can already feel like a competitive sport. Add rising costs, busy schedules, and one too many “hey” messages, and suddenly you’re wondering if geography is also working against you. Enter WalletHub’s latest study ranking the best and worst states for singles, based on nearly 30 factors including dating opportunities, affordability, and how much fun …
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