It’s always been said you should listen to your elders, but when it comes to dating in the 2020s, we’re not sure that the elderly can possibly understand what it’s like to date in a world of apps, AI, and filtered profile pics.

That didn’t stop 80-year-old Gail Rudnick, who is sharing advice with her granddaughter in a new podcast called Excuse My Grandma. Here’s a bit of what Grandma Gail has to say: