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5 Best Thanksgiving Pick-Up Lines

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In the generous, gluttonous spirit of November, we felt compelled—no, morally obligated—to bestow upon you the finest Thanksgiving pick-up lines the internet (and several questionable group chats) have to offer. Use them wisely. Every single one has an equal chance of getting you lucky, getting you laughed at, or getting you escorted out of the …
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3 Reasons Not to Bring Your Booty Call to Thanksgiving

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"Dear Lord, please let Jason and his new friend do the right thing and get married." With Thanksgiving around the corner, some of you are staring at your phones wondering: “Should I bring the person I met on OBC to meet my entire family?” Short answer: absolutely not.Long answer: absolutely, definitely not. Look, having a …
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Dudes, We Need to Talk About Your Dating Profile Pics

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Look, I say this with love: some of y’all are out here committing photography crimes. As a benevolent, world-weary dating-site admin who has reviewed more profiles than I’ve had hot dinners, I am begging you — please stop sabotaging yourselves.If you truly want to get laid (or loved! or lightly admired!), why… why is that …
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Why Upgrading to Premium on OBC Is a Must-Do

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Let’s be real — free dating apps are fun, but they’re like fast food. Cheap, easy, and good in a pinch — but if you want something better, deeper, more satisfying, you’ve got to upgrade. Paying for premium features on a dating site isn’t just vanity — it’s strategy. And here’s why it’s totally worth …
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5 Reasons To Be Thankful You’re Single This Thanksgiving

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Thanksgiving is all about gratitude, carbs, and avoiding that one relative who wants to debate you about the housing market. But while everyone else is posting “so blessed” couple selfies with matching flannels, you know what you get to be thankful for? Being single. Yes, really. Hear me out.1. You don’t have to impress anybody’s …
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Ride the Vibe Wave — But Keep Your Feet on the Ground

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Ever heard of vibe dating? It’s all over the place right now, especially among Gen Z: as outlined in a recent article by VICE, rather than picking someone based on shared goals or values, the idea is to ask: Do we just click? VICESo… what is vibe dating?It’s basically a low-pressure approach to getting back …
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Going Instagram-Official Kills the Casual Dating Vibe

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It’s 2025, and for better or worse, every situationship seems one post away from being declared “official.” One blurry brunch photo, one tagged story, one shared sunset — and suddenly everyone knows who you’re spending your weekends with. But for those of us who actually enjoy casual dating, that kind of public declaration can be …
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The Fine Art of the One-Night Connection

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Let’s be honest: not every night out needs to turn into a long-term thing. Sometimes, what you really want is a spark—a shared moment that’s exciting, respectful, and leaves you smiling the next morning (no regrets, no awkwardness). But a great one-night connection doesn’t just happen. It’s an art form, and like any good art, …
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Getting Back in the Saddle After a Break-Up

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When someone like Dakota Johnson—fresh off the end of an engagement with Chris Martin—takes her time, catches her breath, and then starts tentatively dating again, we’re reminded that healing isn’t a straight line. According to an article in ELLE, Dakota is “in a great place” following the breakup, and is slowly dipping her toes back …
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5 First Date Horror Stories

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There’s something thrilling about a first date — the promise of new connection, the hope that maybe this time things will click. But let’s be honest: first dates can also be gloriously unpredictable in all the wrong ways. You’re meeting someone for the first time, squinting at their photo, wondering if they’re as funny in …
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Pick-Up Lines Are Dead? Not On OBC

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Hey OBC fam! ?So, we just caught this piece from the New York Post about how traditional pick-up lines may be on their last leg in the modern dating scene. The article argues that in an era ruled by swipes, text messages at 2 a.m., and endless app browsing, the old “Hey baby, are you …
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Why Real Life Love Stories Don’t Need a Happy Ending to Be Good

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Hollywood really did a number on us. Decades of movies have taught us that every love story needs a perfect ending: rain pouring, someone running through an airport, swelling music, credits roll. But in real life? Sometimes the movie just ends mid-scene. And that’s not tragic—it’s real. Not every spark turns into a wedding. Not …
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When Your Date Turns Into Someone’s TikTok Clip

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So we just read this gem of an article from Rolling Stone—yes, that Rolling Stone—about how Gen Z men are so paranoid about being filmed on dates that many are flat-out opting out of dating altogether. And you know what? We get it. Because this is wild. And yes, it’s gross.Picture this: you’re finally on …
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Dating & Sex Celebrities

When Dating Feels “Bitterly Disappointing," Head to OBC

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Pop star Lily Allen just said post-divorce dating has been “bitterly disappointing,” calling it punishing, humiliating, and just… not it. (via The Cut) And honestly? Same, girl. Re-entering the dating scene after a breakup can feel like being dropped into a reality show you didn’t audition for. Everyone’s swiping, ghosting, or “just seeing where it …
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Casual Dating is the Ultimate Life Hack for Overthinkers

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If you’ve ever replayed a text 47 times before hitting send, congratulations — you’re an overthinker. Your brain’s basically a 24/7 dating committee, analyzing tone, punctuation, and the time stamp on that “hey ;).”But here’s the thing: overthinking ruins the fun part. You’re not supposed to treat a first date like a NASA launch sequence. …
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4 Techniques to Make Sex Better for Women

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We all wanna have good time with our booty calls, but often women get the short end of the stick (no pun intended), especially if it takes more time, energy, and creativity to get her off. But a recent study is here to help, sharing four techniques women claim are ideal for taking them to …
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How Cuffing Season Drains Your Bank Account (And How to Avoid That!)

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Essence just dropped a truth bomb: inflation isn’t just hitting your grocery bill—it’s coming for your love life, too. According to their recent piece on the cost of cuffing season, more than half of Black singles are cutting back on dates, and nearly 60% are now more money-conscious about how they date. Even worse, 40% …
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The Most Affordable Cities for Singles

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Love shouldn’t cost you an arm and a leg — but in some cities, it comes close. According to recent analyses of dating affordability, cities like Charlotte, Detroit, and Orlando rank among the lowest in total cost of dating. YahooThat said, when you factor in income levels, those cities often don’t stay at the top …
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