Dating & Sex
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4z60Kj2AoEQ Tennis pro Jannik Sinner recently said he does not really need a dating app, which is honestly a very calm thing to say when your life is basically airports, stadiums, pressure, repeat. Respect. But also, from where we are sitting at OBC, that feels a little like saying you do not need shoes because …
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Breaking: Japan Will Pay You to Date. Flight: Booked.
We’d like to begin by saying: finally. Finally, someone has recognized dating for what it is—not a whimsical journey of self-discovery, but a part-time job with inconsistent hours, questionable management, and absolutely no benefits.Because according to a recent news story, a region in Japan is now offering singles actual money to use dating apps in …
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Pacey and Joey 2.0? The Pros and Cons of Rekindling an Old Flame
Millennials, take a deep breath. The internet is currently in a tailspin over Katie Holmes and Joshua Jackson’s recent social media activity and their upcoming film project. Decades after Dawson’s Creek, the "Pacey and Joey" vibes are officially back, and it has everyone asking: Is going back to an old flame a romantic dream or …
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Should You Date a Luddite?
There are two types of people in this world: those who have 47 unread notifications and those who still think AirDrop is a weather pattern. If you’ve found yourself romantically entangled with the latter, congrats, you may have a luddite boyfriend.And yes, the internet and that Yahoo News article you definitely sent to the group …
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New on OBC: Verified Profiles!
Let’s be honest. Online dating has a trust problem. Between catfish, scammers, and people still clinging to photos from their glory days, it can feel like you’re playing a guessing game instead of actually meeting someone.That’s why we just rolled out something we’re very excited about. Say hello to OBC’s new liveness verification feature.Here’s how …
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The 5 Biggest Surprises from Coachella Weekend 1
Every year, Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival delivers its fair share of chaos, celebrity sightings, and blink-and-you-miss-it moments—but Weekend 1 felt especially stacked. From unexpected cameos to headline-making PDA, here are the five surprises everyone’s still talking about:1. Kendall Jenner & Jacob Elordi going very publicIn a festival known for low-key celeb mingling, Kendall …
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Alix Earle Shares Her Dating "Icks" and Regrets
If there’s one thing Alix Earle is going to do, it’s overshare—in the best possible way. During her recent appearance on The Drew Barrymore Show, the TikTok “it girl” sat down with Drew Barrymore for a refreshingly unfiltered chat about modern dating… and the surprisingly universal “icks” that can instantly kill a vibe. https://youtu.be/-zd9-Fy1pvo
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Smart, Not Synthetic: The Right Way to Use AI in Dating
AI is officially in its dating era, and honestly, it was only a matter of time. Between profile writing, message drafting, and photo editing, it can feel like you have a tiny digital wingman living in your pocket. But before you let a robot run your love life, let’s get one thing straight. There is …
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Where to Travel for a Hookup: Top U.S. Destinations + the Best Casual Dating Site
Some trips are about culture. Some are about relaxation. And some are about locking eyes with a stranger over a cocktail and thinking… yeah, this could be fun.If you’re traveling with zero interest in labels and every interest in chemistry, certain U.S. cities just get it. They’re built for sparks, not strings.Let’s start bold: Miami. …
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Casual Dating a Neurodivergent Person: Less Guessing, More Saying (and Why That’s Actually Hot)
Let’s start with a myth that needs to go. Neurodivergent (ND) people are not all looking for forever, and they are definitely not all trying to recreate an episode of Love on the Spectrum. Some are, and that’s great. But plenty of ND folks, autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, and beyond, are just as interested in casual …
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Death by Deck: Is PowerPoint Dating the End of Romance as We Know It?
London, we need to talk. We’ve endured the rain, the Central Line in mid-August, and the rising price of a pint. But this? This might be where we draw the line.According to a recent report by the Deccan Herald, Londoners have officially reached peak "corporate burnout" and decided to bring it into the bedroom. Well, …
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3 Tips for Singles on Spring Break: Have Fun and Get Lucky
If you're single and ready to mingle this spring break, we've got some tips to help you make the most of your time in the sun. Whether you're hitting the beach, exploring a new city, or chilling at home, here are three tips to ensure you have a blast and maybe even find a little …
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Think Twice Before Letting AI Into Your Camera Roll
Online dating is already a little… weird.Now it might be getting way weirder.Apps like Tinder are starting to roll out AI features that ask for access to your entire camera roll—yes, all your photos—in order to “help” you pick your best profile pics.The pitch?Better matches. Better photos. Better dating.The reality?Let’s talk about it.Your Camera Roll …
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Swiped Right… and Blackmailed? The Rise of “Sextortion” on Dating Apps
Dating apps are supposed to be fun. Flirty. Maybe a little chaotic.Not… criminal.But a recent report from KTLA highlights a growing threat users need to know about: “sextortion” scams targeting people on dating platforms.What’s actually happening?According to local authorities, scammers are posing as attractive matches on dating and social media apps. The playbook is fast …
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The Struggle is Real: Dating as a Man in 2026 (and how OBC can help!)
If you want an honest look at modern dating, don’t ask your friends.Ask Google.According to a recent piece from HuffPost, men are constantly searching things like “Why is dating so hard?” and “Why did she stop texting me?”—usually late at night after a confusing date or a promising match suddenly disappears.And honestly? Fair questions.Modern dating …
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It’s Time to Stop Acting Like Younger Men + Older Women Is Weird
Alright OBC, gather round.Sienna Miller recently said what many of us have been thinking for years. Relationships where the woman is older than the man should not be treated like some scandalous social experiment. They should be normal. Casual. Unremarkable. Just two adults dating.Revolutionary concept, right?Miller, 44, has been happily partnered with Oli Green, who …
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Too Many Dating Options Is a Problem
Apparently, having endless dating options is not the flex we were promised.A recent study covered by HuffPost UK has confirmed what many of us already suspected while staring blankly at a dating app at 11.47pm. Too many choices do not make dating better. They make it messier, louder, and far more exhausting. Especially for men, …
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Ghostlighting: Somehow Worse Than Ghosting
Just when it felt like dating culture could not get more confusing, a new term entered the conversation and immediately raised everyone’s blood pressure. Ghostlighting is exactly what it sounds like, a combination of ghosting and gaslighting that manages to feel even more disorienting than either on its own.If ghosting is disappearing without explanation, and …
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Why Alysa Liu’s “I Love Myself” Moment Is the Self-Love Reminder We All Needed
Let’s be honest. There is nothing more attractive than someone who genuinely likes themselves. When Alysa Liu was asked about her dating life, she did not perform for the question or rush to define herself by a partner. She centered herself instead, sharing that she loves who she is and feels fulfilled by her friendships, …
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In Defense of Chasing Fireworks
Somewhere along the way, dating advice decided that wanting chemistry was a character flaw.You have probably heard it before. Stop chasing fireworks. Look for stability. Give the slow burn a chance. Don’t trust the spark.And sure, that advice makes sense if you are actively shopping for a forever person with a joint savings account and …
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