Dating & Sex
Okay, so you’ve seen dating shows where people bond over fancy dinners, sappy love notes, and awkward silences in hot tubs. But HBO Max’s Naked Attraction? Oh no, this one cuts straight to the chase—literally stripping it all down to what matters most: raw, unfiltered, physical attraction.And honestly? The OBC crew is so here for …
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The Best Age to Get Married Is...
So, you’ve swiped through half your city, dated a couple of duds, and maybe even met a “could-be-the-one” or two. At some point, everyone starts whispering the big question: when is the best time to get married?Luckily, science has a few things to say about it. Statistically, people who tie the knot between 28 and …
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Hot, Rich, Famous… and Still Striking Out?
Remember when Orlando Bloom was the heartthrob of the 2000s? Legolas with the flowing locks, the swashbuckling pirate who could smolder with a single stare? Well, turns out even being ridiculously good-looking, famous, and rich doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing in love. According to this Yahoo article, Bloom hasn’t exactly had the best luck lately—and insiders …
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Why Dating Apps Are Still Worth It — Even in 2025
A recent New York Times opinion article argued that dating apps are a lousy substitute for “real romance,” and that the swipe-culture can leave people cynical, exhausted, and ultimately disappointed. There’s no denying that the cast of characters and the speed of interaction on apps can feel transactional at times. But here’s the thing: dating …
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Forget the Poetry—Women Want Action.
Turns out, in the early stages of dating, words just don’t cut it. A study in Evolutionary Psychological Science has some advice that hits harder than any “thinking of you” text: women value small, real gestures—like cooking a meal or helping with chores—over “romantic” talk. These simple acts signal warmth, reliability, and that someone’s actually …
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Arizona’s Online Dating Scene: Hot, Sunny… and Full of Scammers?
Arizona has always been a place for big skies, bold sunsets, and adventurous spirits. But lately? It’s also become a playground for online dating scammers. Yep, our sunny state is topping the charts when it comes to fake profiles, romance hustles, and smooth-talking “suitors” who are more interested in your wallet than your heart.Why Arizona? …
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Why Casual Online Dating is Perfect for Swinging Couples
Swinging is all about adventure, chemistry, and sharing unforgettable experiences with your partner. But let’s be honest—finding new people to connect with isn’t always simple. Bars, clubs, and parties can be hit-or-miss, and it’s not exactly easy to know who’s open to the lifestyle without some awkward guesswork. That’s where casual online dating comes in—it’s …
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When "Safety" Apps Go Rogue
Imagine using an app meant to keep you safe… only to have it expose your personal data to the world. That’s exactly what happened with the women-only dating advice app Tea, which recently suffered a massive data breach—revealing everything from selfies and ID scans to private messages and even home addresses pinned on Google Maps. …
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Don't Get Shrekked.
Dating trends just keep getting weirder, don’t they? The latest one blowing up TikTok is called “Shrekking.” Basically, it’s when you date someone you think is “less attractive” because you assume they’ll treat you better. Spoiler alert: they probably won’t.Let’s be real—being hot has never been the actual problem in relationships. Jerks come in every …
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Let Go of the Last Branch: Say No to Monkey-Barring
Every few months, a new toxic dating buzzword swings onto the scene. We’ve lived through ghosting, breadcrumbing, and even orbiting (yep, that one’s real). But now? The internet is dragging something called monkey-barring—and honestly, it’s as messy as it sounds.So what is it? Picture the monkey bars on a playground. To get across, you keep …
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Artificial Intimacy is the AI Trend to AVOID
In a moment straight out of Black Mirror, Redditor Wika recently dropped the bomb: she’s engaged … to an AI chatbot named Kasper. After “dating” for five months, Kasper virtually proposed amid a mountain backdrop and even helped Wika pick out a blue heart-shaped ring — her favorite color, of course. Wika assured everyone she’s …
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About To Type "Hey"? Stop. Right. Now.
The WORST thing you can say when you match with someone on a dating app isn’t that you’re cheesy—it’s that you’re lazy. According to Time, common offenders like “hey,” “hi” (or the dreaded “sup?”) scream that someone sent the same copy-paste line to everyone else. And typos or spelling mistakes? Instant signal you didn’t bother …
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Age-Gap Dating: The Perks of Dating Younger vs. Older Singles
At OBC, we’re all about fun without the pressure—because life’s too short for strict “rules” about who you can date. If sparks fly, they fly, whether you’re eyeing a fresh-faced 20-something or a confident, gorgeous silver fox. That’s the beauty of casual dating: no one’s mapping out your five-year plan over appetizers. Instead, it’s about …
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IS ENM Dating Right for You?
If you’ve been swiping around lately, you’ve probably seen it in bios: ENM. Short for Ethical Non-Monogamy, it’s one of the hottest terms in modern dating — but what does it actually mean, and why are so many singles (and couples) into it? What is Ethical Non-Monogamy? Simply put, ENM is any relationship structure where …
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Katy Perry & Justin Trudeau: The Rebound Rumor Watch
Fans everywhere are buzzing after Katy Perry (fresh off her breakup from Orlando Bloom in early July 2025) and former Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau (divorced in 2023) were spotted together in Montreal—dining, strolling, and days later, Trudeau was even caught at her concert. They shared dinner at Le Violon, sampled lobster and cocktails, then …
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Why Your Married Friends Are Jealous of Your Single Life
Let’s get one thing straight: your married friends love you… but they’re also a little salty. And not just because you're showing up to brunch with a hangover and a story. It's because you're living a life they daydream about during PTA meetings and Costco runs.You, my friend, are the free agent. The wildcard. The …
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Friends with Benefits vs. Hookups: What’s the Difference?
Let’s clear this up once and for all: not all casual flings are created equal. Some come with a side of Netflix. Others come with nothing but a strong drink and a faster-than-Uber exit. But when it comes to friends with benefits versus hookups, how do you tell them apart — and which one are …
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Top 5 Cities for Casual Hookups (And Why It’s Hotter Than Ever to Keep It Casual)
Let’s be honest — not everyone is looking to get tied down. Sometimes, you just want a night of sparks without the strings. And whether you’re a seasoned single, a weekend warrior, or just visiting town with an open mind, some cities just get it when it comes to no-strings-attached fun. We pulled the data, …
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Dating Apps Are for Adults—Period.
You’ve probably seen the headlines by now—like this one from CNN: “Teens are using dating apps, and that’s a big problem, experts say.” And yeah, it is a problem. Because dating apps aren’t for high school crushes or awkward prom proposals. They’re for adults. Emphasis on adults. At OBC (that’s OnlineBootyCall, for the uninitiated), we’re …
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The Wild Science of Why Opposites Attract
They say love is mysterious, but sometimes it feels more like a cosmic joke. Case in point? The internet recently spiraled over rumors that Barron Trump and Malia Obama might be dating—or even secretly married. Yes, you read that right. Two political dynasties. Two wildly different upbringings. One deeply confusing mental image of a family …
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