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There's a new guy or gal in the cubicle a few down from you, and damn are they cute... or are they? If you're crushing on a coworker, it might be time to consider if they're actually as attractive as you think, or if you just have "office goggles." Via NY post:A bubble-busting relationship expert …
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Get Out of that Dating Dry Spell
Are you feeling stuck in a dating dry spell and wondering if your love life will ever catch fire again? Fear not! We've all been there, and the good news is that with a bit of effort and the right mindset, you can turn things around. Here are three tips to help you break out …
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The Sex Mistake Hall of Fame
There are many hall of fames that would be nice to be in. MLB, NFL, Rock and roll -- but one that you probably especially don't want to join: the sex mistake hall of fame. Here are some cringe-worthy whoopsies from Reddit users that have us saying, "that's enough internet for today." Take it from …
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Rainy Day Booty Calls
Usually sunny San Diego (headquarters of OBC) is currently in the midst of some serious rainfall - an uncommon occurrence for us warm-weather folks. Roads are a mess, people are searching for an umbrella in their surf gear, and workers are calling in "wet" to work. If you got a date lined up in rainy …
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Digital Dating 101: Sexting
2024 is in full swing, so to make sure we're all ready for casual dating, so this week we'll be sharing some of our most important tips.SEXTING 101: here are OBC's top 5 tips for safe, fun, consensual sexting! 1. Be sure your recipient WANTS to be a sexting partner There is nothing MORE of …
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Single and Ready to Jingle: Embracing Solo Status During the Holidays
Welcome, Festive Free Spirits! If you're reading this, you're probably a proud member of our fabulous OBC Singles Club, where being unattached is not just a status, it's a celebration – especially during the holidays. So, why have we chosen to ride solo through the most 'couple-y' season of the year? Let's unwrap this mystery! …
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Don't Hurt Yourself with a GOOP Buttplug
Academy Award-winning actress and weirdo Gwyneth Paltrow has been slinging strange items through her company GOOP for some time now, so it's not a surprise that she's super amped up on sex toys this year. That said, this year she's gone from vibrators to butt plugs, and experts are warning that misuse of her recommended …
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5 Reasons December is Made For Booty Calls
December is in full swing. The temperature is dropping and the smell of fireplaces is in the air. With people bundling up and putting on their winter weight, you might think this is the time of year to avoid getting frisky with a booty call, but guess what, genius, YOU'RE WRONG. December is the BEST …
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How to Send the PERFECT First Message
We'e noticed a lot of our members recently bemoaning the fact that they don't get ay responses to their messages. A quick browse of their past messages, though, suggests that they are sending either boring or totally offensive things to fellow members - so it's unsurprising their recipients are saying, "thanks but no thanks." Want …
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Three Online Dating Habits to Ditch This Year
Spring has sprung and as we start to peel off the oversized coats and get ready for a season of fun, casual dates and steamy hookups, we'd like to take this moment to ask... no... BEG you, to stop the creepy, gross, and impractical habits that stop you from getting laid. Here are 3 cringe-worthy …
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Top 5 Tips For Your New Profile Pic
Spring is here, and that means it's time for a dating profile REVAMP. It's been a while since we gave tips for uploading your best, non-repulsive profile pic to OBC. Lets make sure your profile pic is right PICK, shall we? Here we go! 1. Remember to maximize your assets, downplay your, um, not assets. …
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Spring Break Tips For Success
Spring Break is on for many colleges in California, And despite the fact that it's been raining basically non-stop since December, young adults are READY for that spring sun and fun - and insane violence, we guess? This year, we're sharing some advice for having a fun, safe, and sexy spring break (and to hopefully …
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How to Create the Ultimate Dating Profile
Check out this video, c/o of Buzzfeed, giving great tips on perfecting your online dating profile. We've done it before, of course, but we all know everyone would rather watch flashy neon words with pictures than plain words. This week, download the new OBC Dating app, and give your profile a little love. We see …
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Eat Well For Better Sex!
Winter is nearing its end, y'all, and if you've been "hibernating" with Easy Mac and Guinness as your daily meals, it's time to LISTEN UP! According to countless doctors, our Western diet contributes heavily (if not almost solely) to the rising percentage of middle aged adults being stricken with cancers and other diseases. Our over-consumption …
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Holiday Hook Up Tip: Whiskey Dick is Real
Christmas tiiiiime is heeeere, which means lots of boozy holiday parties, visiting friends, meeting new ones, etc etc etc, all which leads to inevitable hook ups. But if you're planning (or hoping) to meet a booty call at the bars this season, pay attention: drinking too much can cause you to seriously LACK in the …
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Five Ways To Better Your Chances of Getting Laid This Weekend
It's Friday, it's December, and if you're like us, you're ready to get FESTIVE, ifyaknowhwatimean. Some may have pre-set plans - maybe you're going on weekend getaway or are meeting frineds on the town, but for those of us who aren't sure what or WHO we're gonna do this weekend, we have some tips to …
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How To Have A Thanksgiving Booty Call
Oh, the holidays. They catch us off guard every year. One minute it's summer, the next, it's freezing outside and we're expected to cook and spend a nauseating amount of time with the family. One way to perk up your fall holiday is to set up a booty call for Thanksgiving night. Here are OBC's …
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Sex Lessons From Lesbians
Happy Pride Month! Here at OBC, we are proponents of all kinds of sexual attraction - anything that's safe and consensual? You do you, babes! To celebrate the joy that is all things sex, we wanted to share this great video that gives straight guys some advice from women who know women's bodies best: lesbians. …
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The "Tinder Swindler"
We've given many lessons on how to spot and avoid scammers on online dating sites, and now there is a Netflix documentary about one especially skilled creep who spotted several women on dating apps and scammed them out of a total of 10 MILLION DOLLARS. Via NBC: “The Tinder Swindler” follows three women who said …
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Tips for Your First Post-Pandemic Date
If you're finally vaxxed and ready to get back into the dating world, you might be thinking, uh, HOW do I do that again? And while we have you covered on WHERE to meet singles (right here on OBC), VICE has you covered with advice from a dating expert on how to make sure it's …
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