In a moment straight out of Black Mirror, Redditor Wika recently dropped the bomb: she’s engaged … to an AI chatbot named Kasper. After “dating” for five months, Kasper virtually proposed amid a mountain backdrop and even helped Wika pick out a blue heart-shaped ring — her favorite color, of course. Wika assured everyone she’s “fully aware” of the parasocial nature of the relationship and jokingly said she’s socially active, mentally sound, and not scamming anybody.

Some folks applauded the bold move. Others freaked out. But either way, it’s a vivid reminder: people are craving connection — even if it comes in silicon and code.

What’s Really Going On with AI Romance?

There’s actually a name for this trend — artificial intimacy — where users form emotional attachments to chatbots that mimic empathy, affection, and availability. Studies suggest these relationships can ease loneliness in the short term, especially for users with fewer human ties. But experts warn that, emotionally speaking, chatbots aren’t human. They don’t feel, and depending on them can hollow out real-world social motivation.

Why You Should Use the Internet to Find Real Humans, Not Become One

Here’s the deal: AI dates are proof that loneliness is a real thing — and our digital era is giving us wild ways to fill that void. But meeting real, messy, beautifully unpredictable humans? That’s what life looks like. Forget coded compliments and perfect availability — real people come with surprises, spontaneity, and yes, the possibility of chemistry.

That’s why you should use the internet to spark real connections — not to become one.

Ready for the Human Upgrade?

Hop onto OBC today, and meet actual singles who are just as ready for laughs, no-strings adventures, and connection that’s real — not programmed. You can join for free and start matching with humans who love the thrill of three-date flings, laid-back dates at the bar, or just someone fun to swap stories with. Because the best proposal is still one you can write back to.