Dating & Sex

A recent New York Times opinion article argued that dating apps are a lousy substitute for “real romance,” and that the swipe-culture can leave people cynical, exhausted, and ultimately disappointed. There’s no denying that the cast of characters and the speed of interaction on apps can feel transactional at times. But here’s the thing: dating …

Turns out, in the early stages of dating, words just don’t cut it. A study in Evolutionary Psychological Science has some advice that hits harder than any “thinking of you” text: women value small, real gestures—like cooking a meal or helping with chores—over “romantic” talk. These simple acts signal warmth, reliability, and that someone’s actually …

Arizona has always been a place for big skies, bold sunsets, and adventurous spirits. But lately? It’s also become a playground for online dating scammers. Yep, our sunny state is topping the charts when it comes to fake profiles, romance hustles, and smooth-talking “suitors” who are more interested in your wallet than your heart.Why Arizona? …

Swinging is all about adventure, chemistry, and sharing unforgettable experiences with your partner. But let’s be honest—finding new people to connect with isn’t always simple. Bars, clubs, and parties can be hit-or-miss, and it’s not exactly easy to know who’s open to the lifestyle without some awkward guesswork. That’s where casual online dating comes in—it’s …

Imagine using an app meant to keep you safe… only to have it expose your personal data to the world. That’s exactly what happened with the women-only dating advice app Tea, which recently suffered a massive data breach—revealing everything from selfies and ID scans to private messages and even home addresses pinned on Google Maps. …

Dating trends just keep getting weirder, don’t they? The latest one blowing up TikTok is called “Shrekking.” Basically, it’s when you date someone you think is “less attractive” because you assume they’ll treat you better. Spoiler alert: they probably won’t.Let’s be real—being hot has never been the actual problem in relationships. Jerks come in every …

Every few months, a new toxic dating buzzword swings onto the scene. We’ve lived through ghosting, breadcrumbing, and even orbiting (yep, that one’s real). But now? The internet is dragging something called monkey-barring—and honestly, it’s as messy as it sounds.So what is it? Picture the monkey bars on a playground. To get across, you keep …

In a moment straight out of Black Mirror, Redditor Wika recently dropped the bomb: she’s engaged … to an AI chatbot named Kasper. After “dating” for five months, Kasper virtually proposed amid a mountain backdrop and even helped Wika pick out a blue heart-shaped ring — her favorite color, of course. Wika assured everyone she’s …

The WORST thing you can say when you match with someone on a dating app isn’t that you’re cheesy—it’s that you’re lazy. According to Time, common offenders like “hey,” “hi” (or the dreaded “sup?”) scream that someone sent the same copy-paste line to everyone else. And typos or spelling mistakes? Instant signal you didn’t bother …

At OBC, we’re all about fun without the pressure—because life’s too short for strict “rules” about who you can date. If sparks fly, they fly, whether you’re eyeing a fresh-faced 20-something or a confident, gorgeous silver fox. That’s the beauty of casual dating: no one’s mapping out your five-year plan over appetizers. Instead, it’s about …