Dating & Sex

When you think about things you should do before you ask for a raise, the first thing you might think would be work hard, be productive, take suggestions and criticism with grace, and put that "little extra in extraordinary." When Summer's Eve, creator of the most outdated form of feminine hygiene products still available on …

OBC has been saying "You don't have to promise marriage just to get a date" for years, shouting it from the rooftops, car windows, and public bathroom toilets in Barstow, CA (sidenote: don't ever go to Barstow, California). And yet, for some reason, everyone construed it as us preaching dirty, offensive filth that would derail …

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Rewind to a year or so back, and Brody Jenner (talent: being born to someone talented) and Jayde Nicole (talent: tits) were dating, making out in Hawaii, and looking generally hot all while dressed like normal human beings. He was drool-worthy hot in that "why do I know who you are again?" type of way. …

Rewind to a few months ago: the OBC team was thinking about a massive overhaul. A site rebranding, if you will, that would freshen the site's look and feel and resolidify us as the #1 casual dating site in the world. Then we remembered one of the most fun, entertaining projects we've ever released: The …

Good news for everyone at OBC!post-sex reading and strawberries. img @ momlogicWhen a Princeton lab group read up about a study showing that stressful, unpleasant situations could actually inhibit brain growth, they had a question: what about stressful but pleasant situations, like say, sex?So they rustled up some sexually active, booty-call-lovin' rodents and compared their …

Reason 4,598 people should avoid long-term relationships: they might give you a heart attack. Relationship insecurity (n): the constant fear that you're not good enough and your partner will cheat, and extreme fear of rejection. Assuming you aren't some sort of AI robot (and if you are, please consider me a friend when you take …

AskMen's annual Great Male Survey came out this week, and it is just full of interesting facts. Many sites are just looking at this year's results and making assumptions based on those, but we are hard-hitting journalists here at BCU and we don't half-ass things like other websites (false: we usually half-ass things). So we …

After watching the hilarious video below featuring comedian Peet Guercio discussing quite possibly the most uncomfortable post-hookup e-mail (e-mail?! Really?!) ever to be sent ever, we began thinking about our own awkward post-hook up stories so you know to avoid them. Keep this post bookmarked for future reference, because you know it's gonna happen eventually. …

Breaking up is hard to do, so Neil Sedaka said, and we agree, except in times when an entertaining, out with a bang break up is necessary. Perhaps you caught your SO in a tryst or have finally realized that without some sort of catastrophic event, your relationship will never end and you'll be stuck …