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Sexting 101

In this day and age, where celebrities and politicians are getting their phones hacked and their text messages leaked, I think it's time we have another sit down and talk about sexting.As you probably, know, sexting is the act of sending sexually themed text messages and photos to a person of interest in your life. …
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Reese Witherspoon Gives Sexting Tips

That headline might take the cake for biggest hype for the smallest payout, so apologies in advance... Reese Witherspoon made an appearance at the MTV Movie Awards this past weekend when she won the "My Generation" Award (wut?) and made a subtle jab at Blake Lively and other starlets who have had nude pics leak …
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How To: A Guide To Living Single

As you know, OBC is a dating site that promotes, fun, casual dating, without having to promise marriage just to get a date. We think hook ups are fun, and booty calls are better, and finding someone you are sexually compatible with can be just as important a moment as finding someone you are "emotionally" …
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Single Parents: Dealbreaker or Not?

I don't know if it's the warmer weather (it's 90 degrees in San Diego), the celebration of Osama's death getting people riled up (gross), or the Royal Wedding, but people have been talkin' sex this week. Not only are Australian dudes having "too much" sex, but fat people are "unsatisfied," and now single parents might …
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How To: End An Awful First Date

Continuing on with our series on dating how-tos, we go from avoiding first date awkwardness to something way worse: How To End an Awful First Date. We've all been there. You're out with that guy or girl you've totally been crushing on, but it's just. Not. Working. You don't agree on anything, everything they do …
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How To: Avoid First Date Awkwardness

So, you fixed up your headline, adjusted your photos, gave your profile a makeover and mastered the first message. Now of course, it's time to actually meet up! Because this is a casual dating site (and because we are normal human beings who don't live in Disney princess movies), we know there is no such …
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Sexidents: Awesome Safe Sex Ad

In this day and age, with shows like "16 and Pregnant" and "Teen Mom," as well as the glorification of the so-called "stars" of said shows, we are always excited to see something that actually promotes safe sex. Especially to teenagers, who, let's be honest, are dumb little dumb idiots who walk around with potent, …
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How To: Clean Up Your Dating Profile

Last week we talked about cleaning up your dating headline, turning it from a repulsive beast into a stunningly attractive belle of the ball. This week in BCU How Tos, we thought it a good idea to discuss the REST of your profile. Whether you're on OBC looking for a hot night out with a …
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Best Feature to Compliment Online: LIPS

It is interesting to me, that at the ripe old age of twenty-something-something (don'tworryaboutit), men my age seem to still be mentally incapable of finding a solid middle ground in the world of flirting. Some go the awkward no eye contact half-smile "hello," and others tend towards borderline-sexual assault in public.EITHER WAY, this absolute inability …
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How To: Survive December

img via topnews.in I remember as a kid, I loved December. I always had an advent calendar, you know those cardboard things with the doors with chocolate things inside, and we'd get a Christmas tree and bake cookies and hang stockings and everyday until the Christmas Eve seriously lasted an ETERNITY. And then you hit …
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